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Author:  Gooseman [ Fri Apr 19, 2013 11:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Should I try to re approach her?
Hey guys,

I had a talk with my gf like 10 days ago and she said that she doesn't seem to make any progress in this relationship. She told me that she had a relationship which ended a year ago, but she's kinda stuck in the past and not sure if we can continue. I don't see how is this possible after a year...but anyway, we broke up. For the past days, I haven't contacted her at all, even though it was pretty hard. No messages, no chatting, nothing. I was hoping for her to say something, maybe a message or something.

This isn't the first time when this is happening. We had a similar talk some time ago and we haven't spoken for 3 or 4 days, but that time she was the one who started contacting me again and we got back together.

Ok, enough with the details. I was hoping that I can get over it, but it's harder than it seems and I miss her more than a lot. The question is...should I try to re approach her again? How to do this without leaving the impression that I'm needy or desperate? Or is it better to wait for her to make the first move?

I'm feeling kinda weird right now, some any advice is welcome! Thanks in advance!

PS: I hope this is the right section for posting this.
Author:  Rough Operator [ Sat Apr 20, 2013 1:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I try to re approach her?
Wait it out, move on, start gaming other women when you feel ready.

You WILL hear from her again, I promise. You just have to tough it out, and it is tough.
Author:  Gooseman [ Sun Apr 21, 2013 11:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I try to re approach her?
Yeah, it's tough already. I've been through a breakup before but damn, it wasn't like this.

Anyway, in 2 weeks, we're celebrating Easter and I like to send messages to a few people, wishing them Happy Easter. I'll probably send her one too. Depending on how she's gonna answer, maybe we will exchange a few texts...
Author:  Gooseman [ Wed Apr 24, 2013 8:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I try to re approach her?
I thought I'll abandon this topic, but it seems that there still are some things which need to be said :D

I haven't talked to her at all, for almost two weeks. The only interactions, if I can call them like this, were some likes that she gave to some songs I posted on Facebook. Nothing important...

Staying in the Facebook area, today she posted a song whose lyrics goes like this.. When I said what I said I did not mean anything /We Belong in the movie [...] You're the only thing I ever want anymore. And even more, she posted a pic on her tumblr, with a quote: "My head is just one big mess". Maybe this will sound silly, but is this some kind of way of saying "Hey, talk to me!".

Ok, so it might sound weird, but are these some signals from her? What should I do? Wait for her to contact me?

Looking forward to hearing from you guys, as this whole situation keeps buzzing me.
Author:  Themagicalone [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 3:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I try to re approach her?
Quote:
I thought I'll abandon this topic, but it seems that there still are some things which need to be said :D

I haven't talked to her at all, for almost two weeks. The only interactions, if I can call them like this, were some likes that she gave to some songs I posted on Facebook. Nothing important...

Staying in the Facebook area, today she posted a song whose lyrics goes like this.. When I said what I said I did not mean anything /We Belong in the movie [...] You're the only thing I ever want anymore. And even more, she posted a pic on her tumblr, with a quote: "My head is just one big mess". Maybe this will sound silly, but is this some kind of way of saying "Hey, talk to me!".

Ok, so it might sound weird, but are these some signals from her? What should I do? Wait for her to contact me?

Looking forward to hearing from you guys, as this whole situation keeps buzzing me.
If you want to keep the girl you have to risk losing the girl. I know its hard but still NO CONTACT make her come to you. In the mean time keep yourself busy(job, workout, game other girls), if you don't you'll go crazy thinking about her. Seriously game other girls its a good way to get back into the game and if she really wants you back and knows your talking to other girls she'll contact you sooner.
Author:  kasabi [ Thu Apr 25, 2013 6:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I try to re approach her?
1. You never, ever re-engage with a girl who dumps you. She had reasons to dump you, regardless of how illogical it may be to you. Those reasons will always resurface again unless you change or she changes. Ever meet anybody that changes?

2. You never, ever re-engage with a girl you dump. You dumped her for a reason. Something wasn't working. . . even if you can't specify it. Even if it's a physical situation like, "she had a cat and you are allergic to it but this time around, she gave the cat away. . . " - This doesn't mean she doesn't like cats any more. . . she had to sacrifice for you . . . and she will always remind you of this every time some little BS boils.

This is a pick up forum, not a 'how to get back with my ex so I can be miserable again" forum. Get going, openers, routine, close. Go pick up girls, not an ex who shares some creepy subliminal song messages that expresses her confusion or love for cheesy teeny bob music.
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