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Author:  zency [ Fri Apr 19, 2013 6:58 pm ]
Post subject:  I don't want to hate girls
Hi guys
Last days i have a bad feeling. Learning inner world of girls is getting me angry and i am starting to feel hate about them. I don't want to feel like that.
A few girls tried to get me jeleous about them in last mounths at school. First they tried to get my attention and after a few days they appered with their boyfriends.
Why do they doing me these?
İt is a big problem for me. How can i pass that?
Author:  SE23 [ Fri Apr 19, 2013 7:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I don't want to hate girls
yeah i get what you are trying to say, just remember that attraction isn't about love and all air fairy gentlemanly crap, it's an animal thing, the same mechanisms that we have in our mind that makes us want to f*ck have been there since the times we were killing antelopes, running around bare foot. Point is we have been lied to and pacified, us men that is.
Author:  Don Horneone [ Fri Apr 19, 2013 7:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I don't want to hate girls
Man up. Deal with it. Only advice there is. 8)
Author:  zency [ Sat Apr 20, 2013 5:25 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I don't want to hate girls
Do you advice me to be more brutal about girls?

And if a girl makes the first move, i mean that if a girl try to get my attention first, how must i behave?
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Apr 20, 2013 8:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I don't want to hate girls
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Do you advice me to be more brutal about girls?

And if a girl makes the first move, i mean that if a girl try to get my attention first, how must i behave?
You have to follow the normal courtship phases to succeed in your seduction. According to Freund, a disruption in the normal progression of the courtship process will lead to abnormal behavior that is unacceptable in society.
  • "...[T]here is a species-typical courtship process in humans consisting of four phases. These phases are: “(1) looking for and appraising potential sexual partners; (2) pretactile interaction with those partners, such as by smiling at and talking to them; (3) tactile interaction with them, such as by embracing or petting; (4) and then sexual intercourse..." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Courtship_disorder
Girls will normally initiate the first 3 phases. Your cue to escalate from 3 to 4 is when the girl touches you first. Following the normal phase sequentially ensures comfort subconsciously.

Normal Courtship Process Steps

In simple terms:
  • Phase 1: Girl looks at you.

    Phase 2: Girl smiles at you. Do your part, talk to her. The girl is aggressive when she initiates the talking.

    Phase 3: Girl touches you. This is usually a play punch or tap to your arm.

    Phase 4: Men escalate for the f-close.
Courtship Failure Check Points

Phase 1. When the girl looks at you and you fail to hold dominant (but pleasant) eye contact, phase 2 will not proceed. The best eye contact is the eye fuck. Learn it.

Phase 2. When the girl smiles at you and you fail to smile back or talk to her, phase 3 will not proceed. If you talk to her but she finds your conversation style boring, phase 3 will not proceed. In dancefloor game, the smile is all you need. No need for talking.

Phase 3. When the girl touches you and you fail to touch her back in a masculine, gentle manner, phase 4 will not proceed. If you touch the girl first, your f-close failure rate shoots up the roof. If the girl touches you first, your f-close success rate goes higher.

Phase 4. Men and women are different. Men are ready to fuck in a few seconds when their dick gets hard usually through visual stimulation such as seeing her nipples or seeing her ass shake. Men, generally speaking, pop their loads in less than 3 minutes. On the other hand, women need foreplay for around 20 minutes before they are ready to fuck. Before they achieve vaginal orgasm, they will need another 20 minutes.

What does this mean?

Escalate properly. If you grab her ass or boobies at once, you'll fail to f-close.

Escalate gradually. Touch her hair for two minutes or so. Touch her hand. Whisper in her ear. Blow your breath in her ear. Put your hand at the small of her back for a few seconds. Push pull to build up tension. Pull back before she rejects your touch. Kiss her lightly, then passionately. All of these escalation will require some 7 Celine Dion or Mariah Carey songs before you can tell her to take her pants off. You can do verbal foreplay, non-verbal foreplay, or both.

You can even make the girl horny without touching her or talking to her simply by the way you look into her eyes and invade her personal space of two feet or less.

If you fail to follow the normal courtship phases, you'll be jacking off your wanker at home to Penthouse or porn, or you'll be kinoescalating iron bars as a sex offender.

There's a proper way to do it. Learn and master the process step by step.

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Author:  RuthlessRomantic [ Sat Apr 20, 2013 8:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I don't want to hate girls
Women do get aroused by visual stimulation.

Foreplay is even't necessary if she's already horny
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sat Apr 20, 2013 9:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I don't want to hate girls
Quote:
Women do get aroused by visual stimulation.

Foreplay is even't necessary if she's already horny
See Monster Cocking (nonverbal and verbal) routine here: bringing-up-your-peacock-vt160298.html

There are several ways to make a girl horny. It pays to use many techniques than to rely on just one technique.

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Author:  zency [ Sat Apr 20, 2013 10:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I don't want to hate girls
Thank you hellhound :) This is a realy good info. I had never red something like this.
I think you mean eye fuck is sexy eye contact. I use it all the time. But i confused about phase 3.
Must i wait girl touch me first before i start physical esclation? Because i mostly fail in phase 3.

And RuthlessRomantic i think you had answered my previous topic too. I am good looking guy. This cause a problem like that: I draw attantion easily but they are acting like a shy girls around me. Especially beaitiful girls are looking down while talking them and they walk away if i touch them (gently). But some girls are locking their eyes to mines and touching flirtatiously. Both types of girls are having fun and laughing and giggling.

Main question i asked on this topic is "why do they doing me these?".
Because if a girl try to get my attention and if she fails or i am late, they try to revenge badly. That may be about phase2 or phase 3.

I cant give attention every girl that want me to. How can i pass this?
I am at university and 28 by the way.
Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Apr 21, 2013 12:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I don't want to hate girls
Quote:
Thank you hellhound :) This is a realy good info. I had never red something like this.
I think you mean eye fuck is sexy eye contact. I use it all the time. But i confused about phase 3.
Must i wait girl touch me first before i start physical esclation? Because i mostly fail in phase 3.

And RuthlessRomantic i think you had answered my previous topic too. I am good looking guy. This cause a problem like that: I draw attantion easily but they are acting like a shy girls around me. Especially beaitiful girls are looking down while talking them and they walk away if i touch them (gently). But some girls are locking their eyes to mines and touching flirtatiously. Both types of girls are having fun and laughing and giggling.

Main question i asked on this topic is "why do they doing me these?".
Because if a girl try to get my attention and if she fails or i am late, they try to revenge badly. That may be about phase2 or phase 3.

I cant give attention every girl that want me to. How can i pass this?
I am at university and 28 by the way.
The phases I've mentioned and the failure check points pretty much answer your question. Women try to seduce sexually attractive men all the time unconsciously even when they have boyfriends or are married. However, they lose that attraction fast when men fail to reciprocate the girl's moves.

Non-reciprocation says (unconsciously), "This man is not genetically fit to be the father of my baby." But most men are bad sports at this and get angry with women. They feel like they've been cheated when the girl gives them IOIs and then stops.

What most men don't know is that, they ended the courtship process before it can progress to the f-close by failing to reciprocate properly as a man should.

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Author:  zency [ Sun Apr 21, 2013 11:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I don't want to hate girls
Quote:
Women try to seduce sexually attractive men all the time unconsciously even when they have boyfriends or are married. However, they lose that attraction fast when men fail to reciprocate the girl's moves.

Non-reciprocation says (unconsciously), "This man is not genetically fit to be the father of my baby." But most men are bad sports at this and get angry with women. They feel like they've been cheated when the girl gives them IOIs and then stops.

What most men don't know is that, they ended the courtship process before it can progress to the f-close by failing to reciprocate properly as a man should
Thank you Hellhound.
This was the answer that i was look for all the time. Now i understand why they act like that. I mostly stoped if i learnt that the girl who gave me IOI's had a boyfriend and got angry with them. And these girls are always talking about something like mariage, children, their cooking ability etc..

Everything in my mind has an meaning now. I know what to do. Thank you so much.
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