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| Author: | PORKO25 [ Thu Apr 18, 2013 1:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | I THINK I SCREWED UP THE DATE. |
Hey Guys, Hope you can give me a little guidance. The quick run down: About 2 years ago or more, me and this HB had a attraction to one another. At that time we hung out a hand full of times. Dinners, Lunch, coffees etc, but in a non verbal way we both knew we had an attraction for one another. The only thing stopping me was that she had a boyfriend at the time, they were having problems in there relationship but trying to work things out. So we stopped talking during their difficult period. The Now!: Now a few years later she has broken up with her boyfriend and contacted me. We meet up for coffee yesterday. Its started of well but it had its ups and down moments throughout the conversation. It was some what 40min in and I had to end this conversation ASAP. On the most positive point of the conversation I laughed and said "lol well on that note I better to go." I stood up right after, but it took her a moment to stand up herself. It looked as if she was sitting there for a moment calculating a score to determine her next move. She said to contact her about something she enquired about during our conversation. I told her I will try and find out and let her know. She then replied "We should catch up again but hopefully not in the next 2 years". After coffee I contacted her via FB messenger about her enquiring but now responses are slow. Whats the problem? Your Sitting there thinking what is this dude's deal?! Well a few things... - The spark seemed a bit lost and want to know how to get that back. - She exited saying "We should catch up again but hopefully not in the next 2 years". Although its a positive sentence to exit on I get the impression that the coffee catch up did't go so well as expected so she assumes that this type of catch up will not repeat itself anytime soon. - Her responses to messages have now dropped dramatically. What are your thoughts, Suggestions or tips I should do in order to land another get together? I know can do better just had an off day. |
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| Author: | speed26 [ Thu Apr 18, 2013 3:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I THINK I SCREWED UP THE DATE. |
Are you night club person? If yes, ask her out for clubbing and ask some of your hot friends(girls) to tag along and use the jealousy plot line and that should do the trick! |
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| Author: | PORKO25 [ Thu Apr 18, 2013 3:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I THINK I SCREWED UP THE DATE. |
Quote: Are you night club person? If yes, ask her out for clubbing and ask some of your hot friends(girls) to tag along and use the jealousy plot line and that should do the trick!
I do go out to bars or clubs pretty much every weekend. I do have some good looking girl friends that I'm close with but although I think your suggestion is a good one, a few things concerns me about my girl friends. I dunno if any for you guys have any close good looking girl friends but it seems your close girl friends always want to help in the match making process so that can go home at the end of the night feel good about themselves lol. Leaving you with a self image as desperate and needy to the HB you are trying to get. The contributing effort without your consent always ends with the result you weren't looking for. "I was only trying to help...(puppy dog eyes)" sound familiar? Non of which is your doing. Total sabotage! Do you guys still agree with "speed26" strategy? or should I take another approach? |
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| Author: | Adonis_Complex [ Thu Apr 18, 2013 2:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I THINK I SCREWED UP THE DATE. |
You said there was an underlying attraction between you two for the longest time, but she had a boy friend. She goes through the trouble of contacting you after 2 years. Have you thought she was expecting or at least wanted you to say something about the attraction? |
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| Author: | Wizzay [ Thu Apr 18, 2013 3:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I THINK I SCREWED UP THE DATE. |
His strategy doesnt include asking your girlfriends for help, it includes you just hanging out with them as you would usually do and this girl must see it, see that your wanted by others, so that she will want you to. If youre not wanted you can't fake it and then this wont be a good strategy to use. Also don't just exit the coffee date when its going good, I dont know if that was a routine, I wouldn't have done it anyway, I would make use of the time to kino and attract and have fun, next time better. Also don't be keep to reply so fast, be careful this does not become a one-itis so focus on other hobbys,friends or girls. Good luck |
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| Author: | Logicfiles [ Thu Apr 18, 2013 7:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I THINK I SCREWED UP THE DATE. |
You have her no. ? call her,sound happY(not coz ur talkng to her ofcoz.but coz ur just in a great mood)ask her 4 a walk with u in a romantic place-like a park,tel her u forgot teln her something that other day.. make an attraction pattern-deliver it . |
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