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Author:  Mayhem_ [ Mon Apr 15, 2013 9:08 am ]
Post subject:  Mayhem's Q&A - Ask me anything.

Hello guys and welcome to my thread.

I'm here to share with you some valuable information that i have been gathering from 3 years of self improvement, studies and field experience. During my journey to happiness i have been extracting a lot of important information that has made me look at life in a totally different way then i did 3 years ago when i started my proces. Before i start i'll give you some information about myself and why i'm doing this.

I'm 22, I live in Belgium and i'm in a healthy and happy relationship. I'm currently studying as a social worker and work as a part timer in a resident for young children that have been assigned to our facility due to their parents being alcoholic, rapists, ...
During my 3 years of self-improvement i've had my own share of common problems, AA, low self-esteem, loss of motivational, stuck in the same negative circle for some time, ... but most important of all, I've found my own ways of survival through crisis moments and managed to stand strongly on both feet. I'm here to share some deep psychological insights along with techniques to give you a better understanding of you as a person, how to work on your personality, and the positive effects that this will have to the quality of your life as a whole.

Why i'm doing this? My ultimate goal is to become a coach, I want to furthur develop my insights so that eventually, I'll be able to help people on a more professional level.

Anyway, i'm looking forward to my first few questions, if you're ready for 'em, know that the more details i get, the more i can help.

Author:  Rockets88 [ Mon Apr 15, 2013 5:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Mayhem's Q&A - Ask me anything.

Walk me through how you would personally approach a girl in the following situations:

1. You see a girl working at a retail store who is folding clothing

2. A hot girl who sits next to you in class

3. A cute blonde who you see walking past you on a busy street

4. Cute girl is working out at the gym on the treadmill

I am interested in seeing what you would do given each scenario.

Other random questions

5. Whats the most attractive aspect of a girl and why?

6. Describe your game?

7. Direct or Indirect and why?

8. Whats most important in the bedroom when it comes to sexually satisfying a women?

9. If you were training a student and they could only read one PUA book, which one would you recommend?

Author:  Mayhem_ [ Tue Apr 16, 2013 9:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Mayhem's Q&A - Ask me anything.

I'm happy to answer your questions.


Walk me through how you would personally approach a girl in the following situations:

1. You see a girl working at a retail store who is folding clothing

How long would it take? Because there's a place i have to be in within 10 minutes.
She'll respond being confused, and i'd ask her if she's folding the clothes for me, after ''realising'' i was wrong i'd laugh it off with a joke, excuse myself, reach out with my hand and saying ''Nice to meet you, I'm (insert name here) with a smile. After breaking the ice i'd give her a compliment about something specific, linking it up with a positive thing about her personality-wise, then go like ''tell you what, you seem like a nice girl, how about we grab some coffee after your shift?''


2. A hot girl who sits next to you in class

Congratulations, you are one very lucky girl! with a smile, she'd be confused, i'd reach out my hand saying ''Hi, i'm (insert name here) and I'm here to make your time spent on school much more enjoyable.

3. A cute blonde who you see walking past you on a busy street

Yep, You have passed my test, I woke up this morning with a goal in mind, go somewhere, find a girl with gorgeous eyes and offer her an amazing time. My name's ... , now it's time to pass the second test before i take you out for a coffee.

4. Cute girl is working out at the gym on the treadmill

I'm surprised, normally i'm used to having cute girls train next to me, but i cant help but feel like you're the first one running away from me, smile and introduce myself.

I am interested in seeing what you would do given each scenario.

Other random questions

5. Whats the most attractive aspect of a girl and why?

Her inner self, I cant help but feel unattracted to girls that are whiney, bitchy, have nothing to offer, ... A part of my personality is to face as many challenges as possible and discover as much as possible, so a girl that has a similar personality like me, is very attractive. I find it hard to date girls that aren't good looking though, but despite that, challenging all the way.

6. Describe your game?

Mysterious, when i game up girls, my speciality is ''out of the box'' thinking. When you look at a person, one of it's main instincts, is discovery. Having a girl want to discover you, is a very powerful method to get her attracted. On top of that, i try to keep the level between us equal, so that she doesn't feel intimidated. I'd kino quite fast, keep the conversations both interesting and playful and be spontaneous to reach day 2's or escalate rather quickly. My intention is giving her this ''Wow, who is this guy, what else does he have to offer'' feeling by being different.

7. Direct or Indirect and why?

Both, i usually play out my mysterious style indirectly, so that questions rise and to keep them thinking. I'm direct when it comes out to escalating, kino, asking her out, ... By being indirect, i leave loose ends on the board, usually when i build up enough attraction, these loose ends connect in a positive way when furthur escalating with this girl. When i gamed up girls, 9/10 responded positive to random bullshit, connected with a positive compliment, just because i threw them on a rollercoaster full of emotions.

8. Whats most important in the bedroom when it comes to sexually satisfying a women?

From my own experience, foreplay and dominance.

9. If you were training a student and they could only read one PUA book, which one would you recommend?

Depends on the student, I have my believe that if you wanna throw yourself in the world of PUA that you should be the first person to work on. Know what you want, know your limits, dont over/under-estimate yourself and then start rolling, people that have low self-esteem from former experiences, or people that aren't naturally optimistic do not succeed in PUA because problems aren't AA for example, but their own restrain.

Author:  Testicles [ Tue Apr 16, 2013 9:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Mayhem's Q&A - Ask me anything.

Cheers man. Here's to self improving.
Here's the thing. I have three articles that I've posted around here, through which I asked, as I'm constantly wanting to improve my game, certain things.
I did not get a proper answer through neither of them.
So, would you kindly try to write your thoughts about what I asked?
Here they are:
Here, I asked about the lack of genuine, alpha females:
are-there-any-alpha-females-out-there-vt158447.html


On a related note, about sense of humour and women's personalities:
are-girls-with-a-sense-of-humour-a-dyin ... 58578.html


The lack of kino "motivation" I'm experiencing:
how-to-sexually-escalate-vt158670.html


Your input would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

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