PUA Forum :: I wish I could approach :(

hi guys
I dont approach girls because every time i see a girl, I imagine myself approaching and getting mistreated. maybe she will ignore me? (this has happened before, and I am being LOUD so I dont know why girls are such bitches to me and just ignore and walk away)
maybe she will tell me "get the fuck away from me" ?
getting mistreated is a huge blow to my ego....psychologically, I get hurt. so yeah, I haven't approached in a long time.
I wish I didn't care. But unfortunately, I care. I think I need to change the way I think. I need to not care about the outcome. How can I condition myself to stop caring about what others think of me? I wish I could see myself from an outsider's point of view and not live in my own head so much. Does video therapy work? any other suggestions?

Author:	bartm [ Sun Apr 14, 2013 10:13 pm ]
Post subject:	I wish I could approach :(
hi guys I dont approach girls because every time i see a girl, I imagine myself approaching and getting mistreated. maybe she will ignore me? (this has happened before, and I am being LOUD so I dont know why girls are such bitches to me and just ignore and walk away) maybe she will tell me "get the fuck away from me" ? getting mistreated is a huge blow to my ego....psychologically, I get hurt. so yeah, I haven't approached in a long time. I wish I didn't care. But unfortunately, I care. I think I need to change the way I think. I need to not care about the outcome. How can I condition myself to stop caring about what others think of me? I wish I could see myself from an outsider's point of view and not live in my own head so much. Does video therapy work? any other suggestions?

Author:	Themagicalone [ Sun Apr 14, 2013 11:33 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: I wish I could approach :(
Quote: hi guys I dont approach girls because every time i see a girl, I imagine myself approaching and getting mistreated. maybe she will ignore me? (this has happened before, and I am being LOUD so I dont know why girls are such bitches to me and just ignore and walk away) maybe she will tell me "get the fuck away from me" ? getting mistreated is a huge blow to my ego....psychologically, I get hurt. so yeah, I haven't approached in a long time. I wish I didn't care. But unfortunately, I care. I think I need to change the way I think. I need to not care about the outcome. How can I condition myself to stop caring about what others think of me? I wish I could see myself from an outsider's point of view and not live in my own head so much. Does video therapy work? any other suggestions? Confidence man you need that before anything.

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