So here goes the story:
met her in jan, went clubbing kissed came home, freaked. She told me not to tell anyone and we both took it as nothing much since we were both pretty shit faced. through out the next couple of months i invite her out she comes but always asks if she could bring her best friend along.. i go along with it and say its coo. Obviously i cant game or give attention to her friend because .. well.. shes 'special' . anyways, 2 dates ago i make the biggest mistake and ask her out. she didnt say no, she said something along the lines of oh you're too player for me, im not over my ex blah blah.
she was really worried i would cut all ties with her so she asked me not to, but i told her no guarentees. a couple hang outs later, then this last week i ask her to go bar hopping with me and some friends. we go get wasted, and throughout the night we hold hands kiss hug and whatever. come time to drop her off i do, i ask if i could stay over, she said only if i dont reveal this night to anyone. we stay over making out on the bed then she asks me if i still like her. obviously my scrub ass said yes she then continues about the whole oh we're different you're too player etc etc. despite that i push her lmr and we do the business. we cuddle and kiss throughout the night. come next morning i leave early giving her a long kiss.
not sure where i stand from here or what else i could do.
my goals is obviously a relationship but give me some pointers. i know i probably messed up bad so dont tell me the obvious. i want to know how i can move foward or where i stand at least.
