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Author:  Blue17 [ Tue Apr 09, 2013 11:10 am ]
Post subject:  Smoking area flop

So I'm talking to this girl in the smoking area on Saturday, after receiving atleast 4 IOI's, I thought fuck it might aswell give it a shot. I could tell she wanted to kiss, but wasn't one of those girls who went first. I just couldn't find a transistion from the talking to the nitty gritty, any words of wisdom?

Blue17

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Apr 09, 2013 11:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Smoking area flop

Quote:
So I'm talking to this girl in the smoking area on Saturday, after receiving atleast 4 IOI's, I thought fuck it might aswell give it a shot. I could tell she wanted to kiss, but wasn't one of those girls who went first. I just couldn't find a transistion from the talking to the nitty gritty, any words of wisdom?

Blue17
Escalate kino until you reach a point where you can kiss her. Don't just rely on IOIs.

Whether a girl lets you kiss her or not has to do with her comfort level with you. The best way to build comfort is through touch. The best way to build a connection and comfort between 2 people is physical touch. Escalate until you reach a point that she lets you touch her face... If she is comfortable with you touching her face, she will be comfortable with you kissing her. If she doesn't let you kiss her, know that she is not rejecting you. She is rejecting your kiss because she does not feel that level of comfort with you yet.

Author:  Blue17 [ Tue Apr 09, 2013 12:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Smoking area flop

Thanks majikal, would you recommend little games which involve kino? Or just work my way up until she seems comfortable?

Blue17

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Apr 09, 2013 2:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Smoking area flop

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Thanks majikal, would you recommend little games which involve kino? Or just work my way up until she seems comfortable?

Blue17
Definitely play little games. Thumb wrestling. Body back writing. Spin her around...

What I do is through playful kino in with my stories. I use my stories as distraction from whatever I am doing. Get her involved in the story and start touching her shoulders, elbows, hands, arms... Keep it playful and innocent and she doesn't even realize what's happening. It feels "normal."

The whole point of kino is to make touching seem as if it is a normal part of the relationship between you and her. Just learn how to be a "touchy/feely" person and it makes it easy.

Author:  Blue17 [ Tue Apr 09, 2013 2:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Smoking area flop

Definitely will try that bro, thanks.

Author:  Disco90 [ Tue Apr 09, 2013 2:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Smoking area flop

Check the video at the bottom of the main page also, Gambler on stealth seduction. Deals with exactly what your talking about.

Author:  N1ck9141 [ Tue Apr 09, 2013 3:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Smoking area flop

For girls that wont make the first move look up MYSTERY METHOD "do you want to kiss me?"

Basically if they say yes ...U KISS
if they say no ...u say "i didnt say you could you just looked like u wanted to"
if they say dunno ...u say "lets find out " AND KISS
if they say no now/here etc.. "say ok i understand " continue your conversation thread then later move her to the corner of the room or learning back against wall bar, seating area you can pull her in say how bout now, and kiss

Author:  Blue17 [ Tue Apr 09, 2013 3:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Smoking area flop

A good one to check out, do you think it's an easy one to pull off?

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Apr 09, 2013 3:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Smoking area flop

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For girls that wont make the first move look up MYSTERY METHOD "do you want to kiss me?"

Basically if they say yes ...U KISS
if they say no ...u say "i didnt say you could you just looked like u wanted to"
if they say dunno ...u say "lets find out " AND KISS
if they say no now/here etc.. "say ok i understand " continue your conversation thread then later move her to the corner of the room or learning back against wall bar, seating area you can pull her in say how bout now, and kiss
Its actually "would you like to kiss me?" lol

This works but the thing I've run into is some girls have heard it already. The last thing you wanna do is get caught using a line lol

Author:  N1ck9141 [ Tue Apr 09, 2013 3:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Smoking area flop

yea thats why i change it up a little, lol plenty of girls have probably been ask this question its how you game before and after regardless of her reaction that is important :)

Author:  Blue17 [ Tue Apr 09, 2013 3:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Smoking area flop

Only one way to find out I suppose! If I get my game called ill stay away from the line haha, on the other hand I could get what I was looking for, cheers guys.

Author:  Disco90 [ Tue Apr 09, 2013 7:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Smoking area flop

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A good one to check out, do you think it's an easy one to pull off?
Defos. Did it for the first time Friday worked perfectly.

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