PUA Forum :: She likes me, She likes me not? Advice please.

Hey guys,

Well, I need some advice here.

So I own a company and we've partnered with another company and there are these 2 sisters who own it. The younger sister is really cute and I think I've started liking her. Lets call her T. She's 25 and I'm 26, both single.

T and I went out for dinner 2 months ago, we drank wine, got to know each other and really enjoyed each other's company.

She was travelling abroad for a while, so we kept in touch on SPAM.

After she was back, we are working on a project together. We have to meet after 6 PM sometimes and work till late night. It's just me and her in the my office.

Now she's a really nice girl, she's rich but doesn't show off, she's very soft spoken, very down to earth, respects me. I can't find anything wrong with her. She's the kind of girl you want to marry.

I know she's a girl and I should escalate quickly, but something's telling me not to. I don't want to push it, not sure if she's into me or not. I don't want to be that desperate guy who wants to get into her pants.
She's not into one night stands or stuff like that. She's only been in two serious relationships so far.

Do I tell her that I like her and see what she says? We are meeting again tomorrow evening and going out after work to celebrate our project launch.

If she doesn't likes me or if she rejects me, it would be very weird working with her. And we have some long term business plans with her as well as her brother's company.

What do I do?

Author:	sylarjones [ Mon Apr 08, 2013 7:37 pm ]
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Hey guys, Well, I need some advice here. So I own a company and we've partnered with another company and there are these 2 sisters who own it. The younger sister is really cute and I think I've started liking her. Lets call her T. She's 25 and I'm 26, both single. T and I went out for dinner 2 months ago, we drank wine, got to know each other and really enjoyed each other's company. She was travelling abroad for a while, so we kept in touch on SPAM. After she was back, we are working on a project together. We have to meet after 6 PM sometimes and work till late night. It's just me and her in the my office. Now she's a really nice girl, she's rich but doesn't show off, she's very soft spoken, very down to earth, respects me. I can't find anything wrong with her. She's the kind of girl you want to marry. I kino quite often with her, standing close to her, touching her arms, holding her back, touching my leg to hers while working closely. Nothing sexual though. I know she's a girl and I should escalate quickly, but something's telling me not to. I don't want to push it, not sure if she's into me or not. I don't want to be that desperate guy who wants to get into her pants. She's not into one night stands or stuff like that. She's only been in two serious relationships so far. Do I tell her that I like her and see what she says? We are meeting again tomorrow evening and going out after work to celebrate our project launch. If she doesn't likes me or if she rejects me, it would be very weird working with her. And we have some long term business plans with her as well as her brother's company. What do I do?

Author:	Rockets88 [ Mon Apr 08, 2013 7:51 pm ]
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I've always gone with the notion that your first instinct is usually the right one. That way of thinking can get you far in life. Now with that being said if you absolutely want this girl you would be wise to test the water before fully jumping off the diving board if you catch my drift. Start with some low level physical escalation and see how she responds. If she responds positively ramp it up. If its still positive ramp it up or if its negative take it back down two steps then start again. Working with her is she rejects your advances will only be awkward if you make it awkward.

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Apr 08, 2013 8:13 pm ]
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Quote: Hey guys, Well, I need some advice here. So I own a company and we've partnered with another company and there are these 2 sisters who own it. The younger sister is really cute and I think I've started liking her. Lets call her T. She's 25 and I'm 26, both single. T and I went out for dinner 2 months ago, we drank wine, got to know each other and really enjoyed each other's company. She was travelling abroad for a while, so we kept in touch on SPAM. After she was back, we are working on a project together. We have to meet after 6 PM sometimes and work till late night. It's just me and her in the my office. Now she's a really nice girl, she's rich but doesn't show off, she's very soft spoken, very down to earth, respects me. I can't find anything wrong with her. She's the kind of girl you want to marry. I know she's a girl and I should escalate quickly, but something's telling me not to. I don't want to push it, not sure if she's into me or not. I don't want to be that desperate guy who wants to get into her pants. She's not into one night stands or stuff like that. She's only been in two serious relationships so far. Do I tell her that I like her and see what she says? We are meeting again tomorrow evening and going out after work to celebrate our project launch. If she doesn't likes me or if she rejects me, it would be very weird working with her. And we have some long term business plans with her as well as her brother's company. What do I do? Quote: Now she's a really nice girl, she's rich but doesn't show off, she's very soft spoken, very down to earth, respects me. I can't find anything wrong with her. She's the kind of girl you want to marry. So she is different? Quote: I kino quite often with her, standing close to her, touching her arms, holding her back, touching my leg to hers while working closely. Nothing sexual though. Because your afraid she will reject you? Quote: I don't want to be that desperate guy who wants to get into her pants. So then you don't want to get in her pants? Quote: I know she's a girl and I should escalate quickly, but something's telling me not to. That's YOU, and your fear of rejection, THAT'S the something! If don't escalate....and soon you will be lost in LJBF's zone forever! Is it the business arrangement your afraid you will damage? Chances are slim, she has been "Hit on" before. She is not going to throw a tantrum or puke, or call the police, you will be fine. If it doesn't work out, blow it off your a confidant guy, no big deal. It never happened! Ask your self, what's worse, a couple days of awkward or a lifetime wondering?

Author:	sylarjones [ Mon Apr 08, 2013 9:38 pm ]
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Fuck it. I'm gonna tell her tomorrow that I like her. I'll order a bottle of wine, her favorite food, watch a movie, celebrate and let her know. Fingers crossed. Wish me luck guys.

Author:	Mr. Assertive [ Mon Apr 08, 2013 9:41 pm ]
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You do not have to verbalize it...she can take the hint...if you escalate sexually...

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Author:	Rockets88 [ Mon Apr 08, 2013 11:05 pm ]
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Def don't verbalize it

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Apr 09, 2013 12:01 am ]
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As other two posters! ACTION

Author:	Tr@veler [ Tue Apr 09, 2013 12:38 am ]
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As everyone said, Action. If you'rea having a party why not at some random point grab her and dance with her? There you can really test things out and escalate quickly, and if she really doesn't like it, well it was just a dance anyway! But you can definitely use that to your advantage.

Author:	sylarjones [ Wed Apr 10, 2013 4:11 am ]
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We met yesterday, but did not get much work done. She wasn't feeling too good. We are meeting again today and would grab dinner late. I'll keep you guys posted.

Author:	guessinthe2000 [ Wed Apr 10, 2013 4:22 am ]
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Dude remember the people on this forum know whats up. Do as they say and if it doesnt come through guess what? You got thousands and thousands other girls to meet

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