What most guys don't realise is girls have 3x categories for guys: Friend material, Boyfriend material and Casual NSA Fuck material
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| Author: | marrybanger [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 8:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Friend Material vs BF Material |
I have gotten into friendzone a lot, maybe because girls think i am only friend material... I met this girl in class. I find her interesting and could be my gf material. But right off that bat, she says you are my best friend! good friend. shit like that. thru our conversation I learn that she is currently in a relationship. Im not in love with her or anything, I just see her is someone who has potential to be my gf... She did take initiative sometimes, for example she would sit beside me and shit.... etc How did I get friendzoned this time? I havent done anything, talked to her only a few times. Why is she seeing me as just a friend right off the bat? maybe because she is currently in a relationship and want to make it clear that she has a bf? |
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| Author: | Rockets88 [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 2:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friend Material vs BF Material |
Best way to stay out of the friendzone is to avoid it completely by being sexual, flirty, alpha, touching her and making your intentions clear from the start. |
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| Author: | Wizzay [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 7:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friend Material vs BF Material |
Its because you didn't do anything that your friendzoned, if you touch the next girl, look at her, tell her she is sexy, ask her number, ask her out, anything, smack her ass, pull her hair, as a joke ofcourse, you will not be friendzoned easily |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 8:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friend Material vs BF Material |
What most guys don't realise is girls have 3x categories for guys: Friend material, Boyfriend material and Casual NSA Fuck material
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| Author: | smushed [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 8:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friend Material vs BF Material |
Getting friend zoned is almost always due to one thing: listening with interest. If a girl is talking and you are being a good listener and being friendly and polite you'll get friend zoned. Try to avoid that. |
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| Author: | marrybanger [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 10:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friend Material vs BF Material |
Quote: Getting friend zoned is almost always due to one thing: listening with interest.
So I should not listen when she talks? thats kind of weird...
If a girl is talking and you are being a good listener and being friendly and polite you'll get friend zoned. Try to avoid that. |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 10:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friend Material vs BF Material |
Quote: Quote: Getting friend zoned is almost always due to one thing: listening with interest.
So I should not listen when she talks? thats kind of weird...If a girl is talking and you are being a good listener and being friendly and polite you'll get friend zoned. Try to avoid that. |
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| Author: | marrybanger [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 10:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friend Material vs BF Material |
Quote: Quote: Quote: Getting friend zoned is almost always due to one thing: listening with interest.
So I should not listen when she talks? thats kind of weird...If a girl is talking and you are being a good listener and being friendly and polite you'll get friend zoned. Try to avoid that. her: my bf is a fking asshole.... he did this and that... blah blah blah me: Yea thats not nice, what an asshole... Like this? and do this instead? me: well maybe hes just busy etc.... |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 11:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friend Material vs BF Material |
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you mean like, dont agree to everything she say?
No. More like "What makes you think I want to talk about your boyfriend?". The girl likes bitching about what an asshole her BF is, so by listening to her problems, you are assuming the role of "shoulder to cry on", i.e. the friend zone.her: my bf is a fking asshole.... he did this and that... blah blah blah me: Yea thats not nice, what an asshole... Like this? and do this instead? me: well maybe hes just busy etc.... Do you really think that by listening to her problems and offering her reassurance etc., she will reward you with sex and dump her asshole boyfriend? No! She will simply feel better about getting it all off her chest and go home and fuck him. Stop being the needy nice guy. |
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