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| Author: | solrac [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 2:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Aye, what I do girl? |
Talking to this girl I know, she called me rude. But I don't see why. Her: "Lmaaoo xD omg you silly willy , when can i see you ?" Me: "Anytime I'm free. Friday or Saturday I should be, my friend is going out of town it'll just be a bit quieter around here.. Where do you want to go, my place?" Her: "No crazy im not allowed to go to to boys house" Me: "Haha ok, the movies?" Her: "When ?" Me: "Saturday, Friday's my chill day. Lol" Her: "Dammit , idk about Saturday" Me:" Ohh well haha I guess another time then. If you're feeling it Sunday hit me up & I'll tell you if I am." Her: "Nevermind lol i don't want to chill with youu" Me: "Ok haha" Her: "Your so rude , like omgosh . How can you pull girls ?" Me: "Wait what? how?" Then she signed off. It doesn't bother me much I'm just curious on why she thought I was rude. Any opinions? |
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| Author: | officialpoypoy [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 3:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aye, what I do girl? |
i once said to a girl online... me: Im ganna treat you like a princess... hb: your an asshole... your disgusting. hahaha anyways i dunno why ur hb said that too maybe she thinks most guys wud fit their schedule to hers but u didnt. so bleh who cares, keep on gaming 
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| Author: | heffron79 [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 3:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aye, what I do girl? |
Quote: i once said to a girl online...
She wants to be called a frog not a princess me: Im ganna treat you like a princess... hb: your an asshole... your disgusting. hahaha anyways i dunno why ur hb said that too maybe she thinks most guys wud fit their schedule to hers but u didnt. so bleh who cares, keep on gaming 
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| Author: | bundy [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 5:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aye, what I do girl? |
Quote: Talking to this girl I know, she called me rude. But I don't see why.
see the bold.Her: "Lmaaoo xD omg you silly willy , when can i see you ?" Me: "Anytime I'm free. Friday or Saturday I should be, my friend is going out of town it'll just be a bit quieter around here.. Where do you want to go, my place?" Her: "No crazy im not allowed to go to to boys house" Me: "Haha ok, the movies?" Her: "When ?" Me: "Saturday, Friday's my chill day. Lol" Her: "Dammit , idk about Saturday" Me:" Ohh well haha I guess another time then. If you're feeling it Sunday hit me up & I'll tell you if I am." you expressed interest in seeing her, but she was unable to do the day you wanted. You then suggested another day, but then said youll see if youll even be free? wtf? Her: "Nevermind lol i don't want to chill with youu" Me: "Ok haha" she rejected you and you laughed about it, not too odd for a girl to think this is rude Her: "Your so rude , like omgosh . How can you pull girls ?" shes pissed you were not responsive to her bailing(good job) and called you on it because she wanted to provoke a reaction out of you Me: "Wait what? how?" Then she signed off. It doesn't bother me much I'm just curious on why she thought I was rude. Any opinions? next time a girl asks you when you want to see her, and you are free all weekend, tell her you have a few things to do over the weekend but the timing is pretty flexible and ask what day would work for her. also, why did you say "ohh well haha i guess another time then." ??? what is funny about her saying she is busy one day? absolutely nothing |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 6:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aye, what I do girl? |
Quote: Talking to this girl I know, she called me rude. But I don't see why.
It's with the last line things took a rather abrupt turn, much like the above poster had indicated. Your reply to her not being sure about Saturday looks pouty - "I didn't get my way so I'm not going to play nice!". A lot of guys in pickup make this about-face when a woman doesn't comply with them, and it does come off as assholish; what if she legimately has a busy weekend? You asked her out and she had agreed, and you get upst and reactive when she says she can't Saturday. You need to keep your expectations in line, she has no obligation to you. If you persist with this mentality your success with women will be greatly hindered. A better response could have been to ask her what day works for her so the two of you could figure it out - that's not a sign of weakness, or being "beta", but rather being respectful to her needs and if anything you'll gain favor with her.
Her: "Lmaaoo xD omg you silly willy , when can i see you ?" Me: "Anytime I'm free. Friday or Saturday I should be, my friend is going out of town it'll just be a bit quieter around here.. Where do you want to go, my place?" Her: "No crazy im not allowed to go to to boys house" Me: "Haha ok, the movies?" Her: "When ?" Me: "Saturday, Friday's my chill day. Lol" Her: "Dammit , idk about Saturday" Me:" Ohh well haha I guess another time then. If you're feeling it Sunday hit me up & I'll tell you if I am." ... . . |
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| Author: | solrac [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 9:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aye, what I do girl? |
It wasn't even mad though, I was actually trying to show her I didn't care if she couldn't Saturday. That's why I tried to "laugh" (That part where I said "haha") it off. I guess I came off the wrong way. I mean I don't know what I'm doing Sunday until Sunday comes around. So I told her if she can Sunday since she couldn't Saturday in case Sunday might have been a free day for her that she can hit me up then & if I'm not doing anything I'll let her know and set it up. ;p |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 9:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aye, what I do girl? |
Quote: It wasn't even mad though, I was actually trying to show her I didn't care if she couldn't Saturday. That's why I tried to "laugh" (That part where I said "haha") it off. I guess I came off the wrong way. I mean I don't know what I'm doing Sunday until Sunday comes around. So I told her if she can Sunday since she couldn't Saturday in case Sunday might have been a free day for her that she can hit me up then & if I'm not doing anything I'll let her know and set it up. ;p
You sounded dickholeish, think before you say, she can't read your mind be cleared in your re text exchanges.
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| Author: | solrac [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 9:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aye, what I do girl? |
I guess I couldn't really see that. But I just talked to her a minute ago. Me: You confused me yesterday. Lol ;p Her: Ohh .. Me: I really didn't know what I did that was rude. O_o Her: Cause you think that what you say is nice it isn't , you don't want to make room on a friday because its your "chill" day . Like whooo cares sunday is a chill day ! & all you ever want to talk about is like making out or having sex or you want pictures . I hate that - im sorry but it's true . Yes your really cute but like you need to be more respectful towards girls & not be like the rest.of the guys .. Me: Ohh ok thanks for letting me know. I am a sexual person by nature I can't really help that much. ;/ I know how that gets in the way sometimes. Myy badd. Her: Okay .. I didn't reply after that. So I know you guys I got a bit carried away with being sexual with girls but It really is me. I don't like suppressing my sexual feelings towards a girl I have sexual feelings for. And I am a sexual person at heart. I have tried lowering my sex drive before but it's kind of hard. Masturbating gets me more horny. I didn't want to come off disrespectful as a result of this though. She does flirt back. And I am down to have conversations besides sex and stuff it's just after a while of just those type conversations it gets boring & I want to talk about what I want to happen as far as sexually between me and a HB. It's not like I don't get to know the girl if I really want her though. I don't just jump to sex right off the bat unless I'm messing around and don't really have any plans as far as futuristic with a chick. Any tips? |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 9:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aye, what I do girl? |
You're making this intense and it's pushing her away. Accept you were rude don't make excuses especially that you're sexual. Play it cool, accept responsibility and move on to light banter but don't ask her out again right now it'll look desparate. Simply own up to it and stfu |
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| Author: | solrac [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 10:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aye, what I do girl? |
I never said I was going to ask her out again? what the heck. Don't be rude with me man I can understand being blunt but not things like "Stfu" I'm looking for advice not to be bashed on. Thanks anyways though. And I did own up to it and take responsibility for it I told her "Myy badd." That does mean I'm sorry in a sense or I didn't mean to. |
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| Author: | solrac [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 10:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aye, what I do girl? |
My bad I re-read what you said I didn't mean to get defensive I'm just used to being responded to negatively when I look for advice about something. You meant don't ask her out again "soon" not like you thought I was going to, it was just a pointer. Sorry. ;/ |
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| Author: | heffron79 [ Wed Apr 03, 2013 11:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Aye, what I do girl? |
Quote: I never said I was going to ask her out again? what the heck. Don't be rude with me man I can understand being blunt but not things like "Stfu" I'm looking for advice not to be bashed on. Thanks anyways though. And I did own up to it and take responsibility for it I told her "Myy badd." That does mean I'm sorry in a sense or I didn't mean to.
Another reason why these guys have trouble with women. He doesn't even know how to help people, he has to say something like that. Someone need to learn to communicate
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