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| Author: | tonystark88 [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 1:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need advice on this friendzone |
well this girl tried to friendzone so i acted like it was no big deal and was gonna Bounce . And she basically started sending all these messages begging me to become friends. I told her well didn't you say you didn't think guys and girls could be friends. She was giving all this stuff about how its hard but you can do it (she just got out of a relationship, we hooked up once , once not). I told her well I am and will always be a guy so cutting out physical interest in a mental skill I never learned. Once again she tried with the friend stuff. I acted like it was no big deal. Oh ok we will see. I suppose message me sometime when you have something fun to do. She says well I don't really ask people to hang out. I called her bluff since she could have easily just said I wanna be friends and move on but she sent message after message trying to get me to be friends and then pulls this crap. First I said a big LOL! and then I said I think we have different ideas of what friendship is . She responds back oh why you only want a friendship with kisses. I almost wanted to say say hey I just asked you to chill again I'm not trying to sleep with you or something to that affect. Something about how If she wants to be a friend then do it but I wont be the guy chasing her but not in those words. I said something about how well I've never heard of having a substantial friendship with another person where once person never asks the other to hang out. It ends up not being a friendship cause you don't hang out, which is ok no worries. I thought we connected and she really made a case for a friendship when she could have just let me Bounce. I will move on get romantic/sexual with other chicks but she seems fun enough to keep as a friend and try to reengage later. Any tips |
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| Author: | Chief [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 3:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need advice on this friendzone |
1. Having hot friends is awesome. 2. Doesn't matter what you call it. Let her have this "let's just be friends" shit because it's not really what it is. Most cases of friend zoning involve the girl not being attracted to the guy in any way. This is bad. In some cases, however, including yours, the girls try to friend zone you in order to resist their own feelings of sexual tension. That which you resist persists. |
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| Author: | tonystark88 [ Mon Apr 01, 2013 4:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need advice on this friendzone |
I agree. I'm not sure what that bs was about inviting me to sleep over but then not kissing me. So ya I get it this girl wants to be "friends" but being that most girls don't text or call their guy friends when am I supposed to do all this. I mean she'd be cool enough to go to a movie with even if I don't fuck her as long as I'm fucking someone else. And it would be a little cool to see if I could actually work this friend game to my benefit. She is an emotional creature as most women so eventually there will be a time where her guard is down |
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