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| Author: | Swaggykay [ Sun Mar 31, 2013 12:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What should I do next? |
Ok, so I am new in PUA, a couple of months now, but after reading tons of good info and executing I can say that I'm a pretty fast learner. After a couple of easy going girls, I met this one that caught my eye. The initial day we went to the club and danced a lot with her, grindin and stuff. I know this girl for a week now and been on a so called date 2 times now. So the first day went pretty well, built rapport, little kino, the second one went even better, a lot of kino, sexual talking, but didn't kiss close, haven't found a right moment to kiss close. So in beetween that I texted her a couple of times, one time i texted the "long proposal text". the one where I say that I wasn't sleepin all night, couldn't think and at the end of the text asked a simple question and she loved it. But here's the catch, I don't know if she's busy, but she's writtin me an hour, sometimes 30 minutes, one time I've been ignored for doing a neg. So, I've been persistent and wrote her 2 days in a row, then made a one day break, then wrote the proposal text and today is easter. I've been thinking to myself, should I freeze out her for writting that long, because she's not in the town this week and she'll be here at the end of the week, when she's back I'll arrange the date, but till then, do you think it's a good idea to freeze out her, or should I wish her happy easter? Thanks for reading it and hopefully I'll get some answers. |
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| Author: | AmazingArt [ Sun Mar 31, 2013 8:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What should I do next? |
Here is the rule to follow to know wat to do next. Ask yourself. Where is this action coming from. Are you wishing her happy easter from the 'neediness' to keep chating with her or are you doing it because you genuinely want to wish her happy easter. The same thing with replying to texts. There is a big big misconception in the community about waiting few hours or so to reply to texts to show your busy and not so available. The problem the reason this works is because a guy is genuinely busy and just has no time respond to texts right away. But if a guy is not busy and just waits to respond to texts, he's doing it from a place of neediness because he wants the girl to "think" he is busy which is not good. It means your trying to put on a fake impression which is not true about yourself in order to get validation from the girl |
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