Quote: Defining a master PUA is very irrelevant to anything.
I can glide on good looks, charisma, knowledge on how female minds work, and what not to do and pull almost any girl besides lesbians and those I am not interested in.
Do I consider myself a mPUA?
No.
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So you are saying that you can pull almost anyone who you are interested in? That is an interesting claim, and relates to my first question. What kind of girls do you find interesting? Those who show immediate interest in you, the "hard cases" that you "can't get", or both?
I have met girls who will loose attraction as soon as I validate them (requires cold approach, these are the easy cases because all I have to do is to hold back on compliments), and girls who will not become even slightly attracted unless I validate them first (requires more direct approach). Total opposites, that is. But how can you tell one from the other during the few hours you have on a club? If I use the wrong approach on the wrong girl, I'm out.
A coworker of mine is the second type, a girl I consider an impossible case. I view her as an interesting experiment. It took me several months to figure out how to make her even want to talk to me, while she is like a sticker on other guys. I found that normal conversation, humor and being an alpha male among my other coworkers (I even dominate those who she like) was not enough to get her interested at all. (Well, I have seen some glances from her, but nothing more). But as soon as I said something a little bit too obvious, validating her, I noticed an increase in eye contact with her (she was almost staring at me while I was talking to the group).
With this as an example, would you be able to pull such a girl? My normal reaction is to ignore girls like her, even if I am initially attracted by their looks. In this specific case with my coworker, I'm just using her to test different techniques.
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