my question is very simple:

how to manage your reputation with girls in a small college?

so if you hit on one girl, all her friends are going to end up knowing about it. at least at my college. so if she blows you away people are going to know that. im very conserned about that and i have befrended a lot of the girls, hit on some of them but i dont wanna develop a reputation of hitting on every girl cuz that looks pathetic for girls.

what used to work for me was that i would only hit on girls that show interest in me, but im studying engineering so my head gets in that technical thinking and i just dont come off as smooth as i need to to make girls attracted to me, so i need to see them outside of the college environment in order to make them attracted to me.

im actually afraid of hitting on girls from colege cuz i might ruin my reputation, as i had done in highschool haha.

how do yu guys do it?

owen

Why are guys stupid enough to "sarge" in their own schools/college. Don't think of your college environment as a "sarging field" or whatever. Just be a normal person and socialize in class like a normal human being unless you are trying to get yourself expelled from your school.

Expelled from school? What are you talking about? Anyway some basic sexually escalating techniques is something like you making them visual you in a sexual nature for example like you could talk about how you've been working out or a story where your talking about something that happend while you were in the shower little stuff like that, this way you aren't coming right at them but it has them thinking of you in a sexual way. Try some negatives with some girls to, one that I used a lot was calling certain girls by their last names, it drives them crazy as they think your only looking at them as a friend, like you put them in the friend zone.