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| Author: | N1ck9141 [ Mon Mar 18, 2013 1:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Worries i wont change!!! |
I recently came out of a long relationship with my ex we are still close (we broke up because i had changed to much and she didnt like it i was over protective and forgot myself and my goals etc ) but anyway we have both been sleeping with other people, and enjoying our single lives...we talk every now and then bout relationship things and there is still playful moments as if we are still together...ive told her i would like to give it another go (this was a few weeks ago) ii approached her the other day and she went to hug and kiss me as if we where still together even though its been weeks now, and i moved and turned it into a bro hug we spoke after and i said as far as im concerned i see u as just a mate and she said she sees me in the friend zone, think this was her ego fighting back at the fact i didnt kiss her and then told her we where just mates she needs to get used to that... anyway my sister was talking to her the other night online as they still chat and my sister started asking her about the relation and as if she thinks it will ever work out... she responded as such "I don't really know, I do want the nick I fell in love with back but I don't know if he will and I'm worried that if we did get back together it would be the same all over again xx" now over the last few weeks i have had a few major wake up calls lost my great nan, and nearly got killed in a car accident and ive really started living out almost every night making friends with people i lost touch and just really trying to enjoy everyday, she has been around with me a few times at these events and is really enjoying herself, but she still says that.... is there anything other than time that is gunna convince her i wont be changing back ? and when she says "dont know if he will" i need to let her no i would take her back even though i am having fun being single |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Mon Mar 18, 2013 3:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Worries i wont change!!! |
Let her come to you. Keep moving forward. Change is good, you are becoming more attractive everyday. That should be your mindset. All you can really do is drop subtle hints about how great you guys had it. Don't ask her to come back, let her come back. Keep on doing what you are doing. These life experiences should put things into perspective and you mention that you became needy and that is what killed your relationship. Fix yourself first and then see if you want to be involved with her again. You need to become the man you were in the beginning of the relationship. |
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