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| Author: | Moose185 [ Mon Mar 18, 2013 3:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | girl sending confusing messages! please help!! |
Ok so I met a girl last year on a night out through a friend. She was pretty drunk and we ending up kissing each other for most of the night, she had too leave early though as she was too drunk. I didn't end up getting her number that night. The next day I sent her a message on facebook giving her my number saying it was nice meeting her but she didn't reply back. I later met her on another night out but it was very awkward and she kind of said she wasn't interested in me. So since then I started talking to her on facebook every now and again. it would just be random stuff we would talk about and have a laugh. Then recently she has been asking me to go out for a drink with her, I turned her down three times as I wasn't sure what her intentions were. She then asked me out again as she was out with a group of girls that night. I had already made plans so I told her I could meet her later that night maybe. I texted her later that night and she said i'm already home do you want to come over to my house. So I thought why not got nothing else to do. this was about 11pm by the way. When I first went in it was slightly awkward then we started having lots of laughs and jokes, she was being a bit flirty on a few occasions. My problem is I didn't make a move and I regret it so much now. I think I've blown any chance I had with her! it sucks cos I actually think she's nice. I don't know what to do now? I want her to know I'm still interested in her and I really want to make a move on her but i'm now worried she will lose interest. Please help? I don't usually hook up with many girls and I can't let an oppurtunity go past like this. How can I bring this back? any advice would be appreciated. I think she is sending confusing messages as when I first met her she said the next day she wasn't interested in me and now she is asking me out all the time. she iss confusing me. |
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| Author: | Newb4lyfe [ Mon Mar 18, 2013 5:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: girl sending confusing messages! please help!! |
Well you built a lot of sexual tension and dhv from rejecting her and it kind of released a bit when you went over and didn't try anything, but it doesn't mean that it's ruined by any means. What you have to try to do is rebuild that sexual tension a different way. Theres different ways of making her think of you in a romantic way without directly talking about it. Simple things like sending a text like "i need to talk to you about something" and put them on edge and they will think of all the different things it could be. I do this is i feel like im starting to be put in the friendzone just to introduce more tension Im not saying this is the best way to handle it but yanno if you are stuck and confused you can put your own spin on this with two perspectives |
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Mon Mar 18, 2013 7:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: girl sending confusing messages! please help!! |
Grab your balls and slam them on the table. |
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| Author: | Moose185 [ Mon Mar 18, 2013 3:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: girl sending confusing messages! please help!! |
Hi thanks for the advice lol. I don't think the direct approach would work of grabbing my balls and putting them on the table. How Do I create sexual tension? I'm pretty rubbish at this. |
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