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Author:  amraymen [ Fri Mar 15, 2013 3:36 pm ]
Post subject:  She freezed me after 2 good dates initiated by her
Hello,

She knew me from the college but she didn't open me
untill she found me on facebook and added me

She arranged for a first date on FB then i got her number and we met in the college and it was a good first date

then the next day she called me again for a second date and went good .. had Fun and KINO but she had a female friend of her with her boyfriend together with us
and the date was full of IOI's from her and most of it were physical

but in the end of the second date she started to stop smiling when i was leaving although she told me that

it was the best day she hanged out with me and conversation on FB was very well and i know that i didn't attemp kissing her but had kino instead and this was because it's a college and the security won't allow it

then suddenly she stopped replyin on FB

and when i texted her the next day she called and answered me saying ''who is this ? '' then hanged up

i called her the next day but she didn't answer as well

but she didn't remove me from the friends list on facebook
and she saw the last text i sent her on FB but she didn't reply to it

so i freezed her for three days right now
since the last time i called her after the date and she didn't answer

now what is this ? is that a sh1t test ? or what
and what shall i do at this stage
thank you,,
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Mar 15, 2013 4:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She freezed me after 2 good dates initiated by her
Move on of course, you could wait for the court ordered personal protection order to leave her alone, but I don't think that will help your chances any.
Author:  Fly_Swatter [ Fri Mar 15, 2013 4:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She freezed me after 2 good dates initiated by her
Boy... Well that deescalated quickly.
Author:  Mak [ Tue May 07, 2013 9:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She freezed me after 2 good dates initiated by her
heeeectic.
Author:  Optimacy [ Wed May 08, 2013 2:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She freezed me after 2 good dates initiated by her
I hope you can take some honest feedback.

First, I'm almost positive that if the girl were to describe things, it would not sound similar to the way you described it.

If you don't have good intuition and lack certain self-awareness, then it is easy to have a deluded picture of what occurred and get confused.

I would sit back and be brutally honest with yourself. Replay all the events that happened one more time and think about where things might have gone wrong. Take your personal feelings out of the equation and evaluate things objectively.

It may be painful, but one thing I always teach clients....Don't just blame the other person or chalk them up to being crazy. It may make you feel better temporarily, but you aren't fooling yourself deep down.

Think of where you screwed up and fix it. It's the only way to get better and not have the same thing happen in the future.
Author:  Mak [ Wed May 08, 2013 7:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She freezed me after 2 good dates initiated by her
Quote:
I hope you can take some honest feedback.

First, I'm almost positive that if the girl were to describe things, it would not sound similar to the way you described it.

If you don't have good intuition and lack certain self-awareness, then it is easy to have a deluded picture of what occurred and get confused.

I would sit back and be brutally honest with yourself. Replay all the events that happened one more time and think about where things might have gone wrong. Take your personal feelings out of the equation and evaluate things objectively.

It may be painful, but one thing I always teach clients....Don't just blame the other person or chalk them up to being crazy. It may make you feel better temporarily, but you aren't fooling yourself deep down.

Think of where you screwed up and fix it. It's the only way to get better and not have the same thing happen in the future.
Deep...good to have a female perspective.
Author:  AFCToTheMax [ Wed May 08, 2013 10:29 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She freezed me after 2 good dates initiated by her
This sounds like my first relationship back in the day.

The girl initiated everything. Dates, contact, kino etc. After a while she got fed up with this and dumped me. I was acting like a man with a vagina. I have a feeling that you have the same situation here.
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