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| Author: | Pinkfloyd123 [ Tue Mar 12, 2013 12:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | She tested me |
So I went out on a date with this girl and more towards the end we kissed and I held her closely. Now I was sort of in the middle of being Alpha and Beta, after I kissed I stopped her and said Let's take this slow, but she asked me "Do you hv a lot of girls?" Which is like a trick question. No = your desperate, Yes = Your a player. So I said all my friends are girls but I dislike some of their personalities and only date the ones I like. She thought I had a lot of girls because I kept on bringing up stories about girls I knew. So I got accused of being a player: I didn't like my response, what should I have said here? 2) Also how could I demonstrate pre-selection with her, push/pull and not seem needy. 3) I'm thinking of asking her 'Why she kissed me' because she said she wants to date other guys I said, that's fine. But I'd like to know if she kissed me because she felt passion forwards me or because she hasn't had a date in a long time. Should I ask why she did? |
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| Author: | Broseidon55 [ Tue Mar 12, 2013 1:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She tested me |
Quote: "Do you hv a lot of girls?"
If a girl accuses you of being a player, that is a huge IOI. You shouldn't have explained yourself so much in your response, but you're fine. You want her to know that you have tons of options -- huge DHV for you (just don't EVER explicitly tell her this, then you look like a tool).
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Mar 12, 2013 2:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She tested me |
It might be an IoI , but girls can also get intimidated , remember ? No girl I know wants to be 'just another' for x guy.Chances of being just another increase exponentially once he's labeled a player , so she bails. Also ,girls with tough morals will always avoid players. That's usually the type of girl best suited for relationships. Solid material. They label players , or guys that have lots of girls as incapable of being faithful. At which point , you are done. Anyway , my response ? "Do you hv a lot of girls?" "Yes, in fact ,I'm looking for my third wife. My other 2 wifes are at home , you'll love them. We'll be one big happy harem." If you think she gets the joke you can stop at "Yes , in fact ,I'm looking for my third wife". If she's a little slower , explain the joke to her. Regardless , a funny deflection is the best way to go with retarded questions like that. In fact , funny deflections are the best way to go with any question you don't wanna directly answer. |
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| Author: | Broseidon55 [ Tue Mar 12, 2013 2:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She tested me |
Quote: funny deflections are the best way to go with any question you don't wanna directly answer.
Yup, always. You don't have to answer every question thats thrown at you.
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| Author: | KimPa [ Tue Mar 12, 2013 2:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She tested me |
Whenever a girl throws a question at you, agree and amplify. For example, 1.Are you dating someone else? Yep, I’ve got a harem to service. Be happy you’re in the top tier. 2. Are you just going to sit around all day playing video games? Damn straight. With enough hard work I should be able to push this to a full month. You got the point.. Never ever argue a woman with common sense, as you will never win with an an illogical creature. |
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| Author: | Pinkfloyd123 [ Tue Mar 12, 2013 3:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She tested me |
Thanks guys!! I noticed what's missing in my game is, I make myself too available. I was thinking of using mystery's line, "A lot of girls would like to be in the position your in... Enjoy your time with me." I think it's like that?? If you guys can, please answer questions 2 and 3 that I've mentioned. |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Mar 12, 2013 5:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: She tested me |
Quote: "A lot of girls would like to be in the position your in... Enjoy your time with me."
Don't say that unless you're 100% certain you can deliver properly , which should be a jokingly way.
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