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Author:  Rough Operator [ Fri Mar 08, 2013 3:33 am ]
Post subject:  Can I bang an ex topic no. 759,648
Right, from November to the end of December I was banging this girl like an absolute sex God, leaving her shaking and whatnot. Then emotions get involved, we split and I delete her number etc and move on and eventually date another girl for a while.

I bumped into her a while ago at the pub, and I was cool, civil and friendly towards her. Then a few days later she adds me on facebook, I accept and we chat a little about random shit. At this point she was dating another guy who was one minute crazy for her and then going cold and shit like that, which was upsetting her. I extended the arm of (genuine) friendship since I was over this girl by now, she came round and we hung out a bit, I made no effort to escalate as I never intended to, she went home and it was all cool.

Then last weekend she splits from her emotionally bizarre bf and sort of invited herself round mine to watch The Lord of the Rings and after a little bit of trepidation I agreed. She came over, again I was in genuine friendship mode, and she ended up crying about things falling through with this other guy, I didn't wish to be her emotional tampon but I discussed it briefly gave some sound advice and changed the subject and made her laugh etc.

This morning she texts me saying "I feel much happier about the situation today, thank you for talking things through with me. I greatly appreciate your friendship x"

So I'm like "Ah well, friendzone, whatever" but I wouldn't mind fucking this girl some more, I'll be honest.

I texted back "Hey thats cool, you'll feel better in time. You at college?"

She replies: "Thanks :) Guessing you're in bed? Bet you were up all night playing games haha :) yeah I am x"

So I said "Damn, was hoping you'd get your arse round her and give me a massage to help me sleep, have a good day"

She replies: "Aww, we'll have to save the baby oil and Russell Brand podcasts for another day x" our "thing" was listening to podcasts whilst giving massages (then fucking.)

After this my penis was like "DING DONG!" and I replied "That's a promise, I've got in writing now" and left it.

Went about my business today and then she calls me at like 8pm asking if I want to go for a cigarette as we both smoke and she was out walking her dog. So she comes, we smoke and then I invite her in and watch something on the computer and play with her cute dog etc. There's a little kino from her such as touching my stubble and leg slightly whilst she was cuddling her dog. But still I was assuming I was merely friendzoned and just didn't give a shit.

Then when she goes to leave we're chatting and she told me a conversation she had with a friend:

Her friend: "Did you go and see Rough in the end?"
HB: "Yead we watched LoTR"
HF: "Did you fuck him?"
HB: "No, we've established a friendship I think"
HF: "No way! But he's so hot!"

So on the one hand... I feel like I am friendzoned, but on the other hand... I feel like I can definitely turn this around. The light kino, making an effort to see me and the story about one of her friends saying I am really hot.

I don't want a relationship, since she has been dating another guy and we broke up. Apparently she didn't have sex with her new guy, but I have of course disregarded this completely however I am confident he didn't make her cum like I did.

Her face is like 7.5 but her body is definitely a 9.5/10. It's a glorious thing to behold and I wanna bang her again. Reckon I can do it?

I am assuming I should just ignore the stuff she has said about friendship?
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Sat Mar 09, 2013 12:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can I bang an ex topic no. 759,648
Most girls want to be friends with their ex's. Don't be afraid to say no.

If you just want to bang her, tell her you can't be friends because you can't see her in that way. Women like working hard for a man's affection. She's more likely to fuck you if you she thinks she will never see you again.
Author:  Rough Operator [ Sat Mar 09, 2013 12:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can I bang an ex topic no. 759,648
We weren't friends for quite some time.

I might see if I can go for it, if not I'll tell her that we can't be friends because I just can't see her in a non-sexual way.
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Sat Mar 09, 2013 12:09 am ]
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Quote:
I'll tell her that we can't be friends because I just can't see her in a non-sexual way.
That is the perfect line to use bro, used a similar one myself, now 2 months later the chick is bored and wants to bang me again :D
Author:  Rough Operator [ Wed Mar 13, 2013 3:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can I bang an ex topic no. 759,648
UPDATE:

Hung with her today, was funny, made her laugh, slight kino when on sofa together. However my flat mate came home and I was a bit cockblocked from escalating. However, I got the impression it was friendzone when she hugged me goodbye.

After some thought I texted her:

"I don't think we can see each other as just friends anymore. You're an awesome girl, but the fact is that I find you incredibly attractive and can't spend time with you without physically desiring you. I'm just being honest. Sorry x"

She messaged back hours later:

"Just got your text and still trying to process it! Thats how I feel SPAM. Give me 10 minutes to reply properly x"

Then she came on facebook chat:

Her: I don't really know what to say!
Thanks for telling me how you feel and being honest
I appreciate how you've handled this

Me: I'm an honest person

Her: I know! It's one of my favourite qualities about you, sets you apart from anyone else I know!
I just don't know where to go from here

Me: I feel it would be disingenuous of me to pretend that I don't find you physically attractive

Her: I do find it weird hanging with you as a friend as opposed to what we had before...

From here on out we discussed our previous "relationship" and some of the things we felt went wrong and I DHVed pretty well that I am working on my inner game (didn't use that phrase.) She said she obviously "Admires my good looks, but doesn't feel anything more than that" which is absolutely fine by me.

She said that she wouldn't want to hurt me or put me through anything negative again, and I said "You know me, I am honest with you, if I still had strong emotions relating to you and wanted to be with you, I would tell you that" the conversation sort of hinted at the possibility of us NSA fucking.

Sounds like a potential fuck buddy? Right up my street!

Interesting development, not what I expected...

My next plan:

Watch the last LoTR film with her, then escalate to fucking the shit out of her. Proper abusive, she likes pain and dominance, I shall give her pain and dominance (within reason.) I am going to caveman the shit out of that girl, then get up and make a cup of tea, no cuddling or any shit like that. Thoughts?
Author:  Dr. Jones [ Wed Mar 13, 2013 9:24 am ]
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"The day may come when I invite you over to watch LOTR and not fuck your brains out...but it is not this day!"
Author:  Rough Operator [ Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can I bang an ex topic no. 759,648
"YOUR LEGS SHALL PAAAAAAART!"
Author:  Fly_Swatter [ Wed Mar 13, 2013 5:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can I bang an ex topic no. 759,648
Read your first message.

Saw this: HB: "No, we've established a friendship I think" and immediately recognized she didn't friendzone you -- that rather, she was communicating SHE thought YOU saw HER as a friend, and nothing more. If she would have said "no, we're really just friends" then that would have been her communicating that SHE sees YOU as a friend.

So I wasn't surprised with your update from yesterday. If I were you I'd have just escalated without even talking about my feelings, but hey, looks like you're doing just fine regardless.
Author:  Rough Operator [ Fri Mar 15, 2013 12:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can I bang an ex topic no. 759,648
I had a cigarrette with her yesterday after she finished work, but I only had half an hour before going to my job so I didn't escalate.

But I was absolutely unaffected, laidback and cool. Didn't bring it up, just made her laugh and made good conversation. She is down for watching a film soon, and she knows I am very much sexually attracted to her and has no problem with this, so if things go down they will go down then.
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