This girl (She is really strong willed) and I have had a thing since new years eve night when we first hooked up. I was then living out of town for the next two months roughly but was able to make it back to our hometown where both of us are from to hook up with her a few more times until I got home for good about 2 weeks ago now. She is a virgin so I got TONS of LMR and I was able to do a bit more each time. I first made out with her, then the next time played with her tits, the next time tried to go into her pants but was unsuccesful then the last time which was about a week and a half ago she slept over and I fingered her thru her pants as well as dry humping... I tried trust me.
Then a few days later she said that her ex wanted to get back together with her and she said she was all confused. That guy was her first bf ever and she was "in love" with him and he broke up with her and broke her heart. So we both then told each other a day later that we both liked each other but I still felt our connection was off. Then this went on for a while possibly 3-4 days. Then she said that she was really confused and overwhelmed with everything with school, friends and family and I said its ok and I messed up by NOT giving her enough space when I look back at it. So we were talking, then she was hinting towards just being friends and I used reverse pyschology on her. There is obviously more to this convo like a week ago but here is the important outline:
Me: I am glad we are just friends.
Her: Me too
Her (4-5 hours later): So how are you (at this point in time lots of girls and friends were DHVing me randomly on this day which worked good, I also ignored this txt)
Her (2 hours after above): I've made a BIG MISTAKE haven't I?
Me (2 hours later): No you're just confused, take the time to figure it out
Her: Ok, thanks for understanding
I then posted a status a few days later on twitter it read "Most girls meet the parents only because they have to walk thru the living room!"
She posted another saying "You're a douche."
This was not meant for her at all, it was a DHV status but she thought it was about her, but I apoligized that it made her feel the way she did, I didn't say sorry for doing it tho (when we have coffee, below paragraph)
Once again I didn't give her enough space after this and we kept texting. I once again felt the connection was off. So we had coffee a few nights ago, she was unreceptive to my escalating and I asked her if she wanted to be exclusive. She said that she likes me but doesn't have time and is stressed with school. AFC move I know
She texted me later that night asking:
Her: Are you mad at me?
Me: Nope!
Her: Let's do coffee, same time next week?
Me: We shall see (I then went into some sexual talk with her)
Her: I just don't think it would be fair to us to continue kissing as I don't want to have feelings for you anymore and you deserve a girl who doesn't have as many issues as I do.
Me: K
Neither of us has spoken in a day and I am wondering how I should approach this, I am gaming other girls currently but this girl is pretty cool. I am sure she is still attracted to me but?
For the record I have deleted her number and absolutely will not text her first, I just want to know how to approach this.