Hello PUA forum
First I would like to inform you, I recently lost my virginity this January and pretty much had sex like 2-3 times a week.
And I am actually meeting a lot of girls now, last week I ended up meeting 4 girls in 2 days...it went like lunch -dinner- lunch - dinner.
I recently came across a problem of mine, I noticed whenever I am in a large group setting like a group dinner or a big gathering I tend to be more shy and intimidated and pretty much go blank.... may be its the noise around me that doesn't let me concentrate and I am hearing a lot of things at the same time.
This is not the case when I meet people one-on-one or if we are hanging out in a small group or just a random group that i meet in a bar..
I actually missed a good opportunity this weekend, I went to a big dinner about 15-20 people, I didn't knew
anyone there, except my 2 friends who went with me and the host, girl that I liked there was clearly interested in me (long eyes contacts, giving me special attention, laughing at whatever I threw at her).
But I was in this shitty state that I just couldn't bounce back from, really boring and bored..whatever is gone
doesn't matter, I still have her contact may be I will recover once I meet her in person
But I think its something that a person can control and an advice is needed very much so that I dont blow
opportunities like this again.
Cheers