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| Author: | acethespades [ Fri Mar 01, 2013 7:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Girl says she is available TWO WEEKS FROM NOW?!?!?! |
I met this girl and we hit it off pretty good. She said she wasn't sure of her schedule then and there and I suggested I text her. Now I texted her: Me: Whats your schedule like Her: I am free (a time two weeks from now), does that work? At this point, I do not want to see her in two weeks because the attraction will die down. How do I get her to meet earlier? She is a busy girl with two jobs in college. Thanks! |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Fri Mar 01, 2013 7:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl says she is available TWO WEEKS FROM NOW?!?!?! |
by asking her if she is available earlier than that... |
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| Author: | Fly_Swatter [ Fri Mar 01, 2013 9:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl says she is available TWO WEEKS FROM NOW?!?!?! |
Rofl. I'd just reply with "lol." That will confuse her and put the onus on her to interrogate your reply. If she interrogates vividly, that's an IOI and you can explain why two weeks from now isn't ideal. If she doesn't make much of an effort to investigate, or worse, doesn't even reply or changes the subject, then you know she's not interested. After all, women aren't stupid -- they know if they land a decent guy, they should make an effort to meet within a week's time. |
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| Author: | ItsAlwaysOn [ Fri Mar 01, 2013 2:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl says she is available TWO WEEKS FROM NOW?!?!?! |
first of all, tell her that date is cool with you and make plans to do something awesome. then text her every other day or so or maybe every third day (hopefully shes initiating texting with you too) and just have light, fun conversation. be fun and build some comfort too. id occasionally try to get her out earlier than that too ofc. like if theres a day you guys are having great conversation tell her to meet you somewhere for a drink/ice cream/etc. if she likes you and really wants to meet you shell make plans at some point before then. id also kinda tease her about the date being so far away. this way its a lot less likely shell flake. i know it seems like these types of girls are impossible to get with sometimes, but the truth is that if you can work your way into her life, shell make time for you on a regular basis. you do that by not pressuring her, not being needy, and being so much fun that she wants to make time for you even though shes very busy. and ofc fucking her well, but i think we're a long way from there right now. i would use this as an opportunity over the next few weeks to make it so that shes attracted to you and has fun talking to you. if you can do that successfully then the date will just be a formality. |
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