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| Author: | Jason. [ Wed Feb 27, 2013 7:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | she's 18 and has a child - anyone experienced at this? |
im 20, i was just asking a girl out and she said she had something that she was too ashamed to tell me, finally she did, and it just so happends she's got a 4 months old child. im fucking shocked as fuck, any of you have any experience in this? |
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| Author: | HardToKill [ Wed Feb 27, 2013 8:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: she's 18 and has a child - anyone experienced at this? |
Yeah. What do you actually want to know, though? |
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| Author: | bundy [ Thu Feb 28, 2013 2:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: she's 18 and has a child - anyone experienced at this? |
lol. run away. |
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| Author: | Jason. [ Thu Mar 07, 2013 6:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: she's 18 and has a child - anyone experienced at this? |
hahaha i was about to but she seems in her head, like she knows im not about to become that kids adoptive father. further more i think this girl would make a perfect open relationship material we'll see. i what to know like if you had to go through any kinda baggage or if and how it complicated things, you know, if i should watch out for anything in this kinda situation |
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| Author: | Cuffs [ Thu Mar 07, 2013 9:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: she's 18 and has a child - anyone experienced at this? |
Hey Owen, I dated a girl who had a kid too, i was 21 she was 20. It all depends how ya feel, if you decide to give it a go the key to it is to make her feel like shes a normal person and not a mother. try and do things together on a one to one basis but at the same time show that you accept she has a kid and thats a huge part of her life. As for the whole open relationship bit, stick to the code of PUA (dont lie). Be honest with her and open, say summin like: This is new to me, i like you alot and the situation doesnt scare me but i want to make sure no one gets hurt. maybe for now we can start seeing each other/open relationship and see where it leads, this gives her a truthful vision of what the future could or could not hold and on the same level your not commiting yourself to her or the kid. Hope this helps! |
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| Author: | Jason. [ Thu Mar 07, 2013 1:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: she's 18 and has a child - anyone experienced at this? |
that's awesome Cuffs thanks a lot, i'll see what happends and be sure to keep you guys posted |
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