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Author:  TiagoFigueiredo [ Tue Feb 19, 2013 3:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Presenting yourself to others In a DHV Way ?
Good afternoon brotherhood, all is good i hope, thank you for reading.... 8)







One little doubt i do have i when you get into a set brought by a friend, how do you present yourself to all, or to the unknown ones in a way that shows an imeadiate DHV ? The same can happen in a lot of similar but not completely equal situations, like in a coffee table, a meeting you re invited to speak, or like it happened to me, i was alone having lunch and was invited to a table with a lot of unkown people. I just said thank you without presenting myself..... which may look a little shy....





Opinions are very welcomed





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Author:  theReal [ Wed Feb 20, 2013 5:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Presenting yourself to others In a DHV Way ?
Just jump into the set and lead a conversation. Build comfort with the set and give them a chance to get familiar with your personality. If you sit there and are awkwardly silent, then the set will think you're shy and, well, awkward.

DHVing is all about being confident, so if you enter a set confidently and demonstrate that you're used to meeting new people and aren't phased by unfamiliar faces, then the set will naturally feel comfortable around you as well.
Author:  detox75 [ Wed Feb 20, 2013 8:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Presenting yourself to others In a DHV Way ?
Your asking th right questions for a good foundation
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Just jump into the set and lead a conversation.


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Build comfort with the set and give them a chance to get familiar with your personality.

NO

If you try to build rapport with a group without establishing high status first you wont get buy in, and it will backfire. Building rapport with groups is much harder then with an isolated target.

You need to learn what high/higher social value is to woman then adopt a frame that always transmits those elements of the frame, specific behaviors should all be coherent to that frame.
Author:  TiagoFigueiredo [ Wed Feb 20, 2013 11:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Presenting yourself to others In a DHV Way ?
Hey detox and thank you for the comment. The foudantion is very important to me, is a day to day basis, not only getting a girl......






So the group attitude when getting with unkown people should always be leadership and atraction ?








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Author:  detox75 [ Wed Feb 20, 2013 6:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Presenting yourself to others In a DHV Way ?
The problem with groups, as compared to individual targets, is convincing the least common denominator of the group you are a high status male so that the whole group will support, or at least be ambivalent, about militating your chances with the target. This is why, unless your game is pretty good, you dont generally want to meet the target with her friends, peers , or co-workers before you have established sufficient attraction with the target. It stacks the odds against you. It only takes one naysayer in the group, who may likely be biased against your interests, to ruin your chances with the target.

leadership and attraction are two correlated but different concepts. Leadership, per se, is a quality of an Alpha male, the Alpha male is one (very common) archetype of a high value/high status male. Being attractive to woman, has to do with adopting an attractive frame, which again reverts back to demonstrating, real and perceived value and status.

You are asking good questions but these are very broad, fundamental, overarching concepts that require a lot of study, practice , and exploration.
Author:  Melodical [ Wed Feb 20, 2013 9:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Presenting yourself to others In a DHV Way ?
Identify who the alpha female of the set is and game her, it reinforces her position as the alpha and it's her who decides whether you're welcome or not. If she likes you the others will drop into the frame.
Author:  TiagoFigueiredo [ Fri Feb 22, 2013 7:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Presenting yourself to others In a DHV Way ?
Thanks for the aswers guys !




Detox you re right, asking the important questions..... but essencially i need exploring all these topics myself......... sometimes i get drawbacks..... and i let myself be affected by them and other small things.....






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