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Author:  J4ZZ [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 4:17 pm ]
Post subject:  HELP WANTED: PICKUP PROBLEMS!
So I went out last Thursday and decided to test out some new techniques and routines I have recently picked up. It all went well, I got three kiss closes and various numbers (I was going away for the weekend on friday morning so anything more was not an option, which seemed to take the pressure off and make it easier). However, because I was testing out new routines I wasn't fussy about my targets and now one of them that I am not interested in has texted me a few times and after a few dry, non enthusiastic replies from myself, she has asked me to meet her at a club this weekend.

ANYONE GOT ANY POLITE WAYS OF DECLINING?

p.s. this is not a mistake I shall make again in a hurry!
Author:  Krista Steenbergen [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 4:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HELP WANTED: PICKUP PROBLEMS!
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ANYONE GOT ANY POLITE WAYS OF DECLINING?

How about being honest with her?

Tell her you had a great time with her, but you are not interested in anything more. This is true manhood in my opinion. Taking responsibility for your actions. It's totally OK to sarge and seduce woman, even though you don't want anything more from them. As long as you are always open and honest about your intentions, that's fine!

You could even be honest about practicing your pick up lines, or about improving your seduction skills and thanking her for her great feedback. Whatever, just enjoy the play! ;-) Don't take rejecting her too seriously; it makes me think you are yourself still afraid of rejection and therefore scared to reject her, feeling guilty about it? You shouldn't! You're allowed to enjoy yourself!
Author:  stevejabba [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 5:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HELP WANTED: PICKUP PROBLEMS!
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So I went out last Thursday and decided to test out some new techniques and routines I have recently picked up. It all went well, I got three kiss closes and various numbers (I was going away for the weekend on friday morning so anything more was not an option, which seemed to take the pressure off and make it easier). However, because I was testing out new routines I wasn't fussy about my targets and now one of them that I am not interested in has texted me a few times and after a few dry, non enthusiastic replies from myself, she has asked me to meet her at a club this weekend.

ANYONE GOT ANY POLITE WAYS OF DECLINING?

p.s. this is not a mistake I shall make again in a hurry!
"I'm sorry I cant make it"
Author:  J4ZZ [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 7:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HELP WANTED: PICKUP PROBLEMS!
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ANYONE GOT ANY POLITE WAYS OF DECLINING?
Don't take rejecting her too seriously; it makes me think you are yourself still afraid of rejection and therefore scared to reject her, feeling guilty about it? You shouldn't! You're allowed to enjoy yourself!
Thanks for all the advice, and I know that rejection can be very hard on someone if they don't look at it from a positive frame. I suppose being hurt from rejection in the past makes me less eager to impose that on someone else.
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