Fair enough... normally do that anyways. But as I and my #1 haven't really "talked about it", it would probably be unwise to k-close the new girl without proper isolation right? I think the repercussions of my #1 watching me make out with another girl would be undesirable to say the least. At worst, I could always just n-close and escalate on a later meet, but I'd like to close asap obviously.

Like I said, don't want to lose or be a dick to my #1. She's treated me nothing shy of a king.

TLDR: FWB and new target at party. Close target without making FWB jealous?

So here's the deal. I regularly throw parties at my place on Fridays, college frat style. I have a few friends that can fill em up, we make some money with a cash bar/entry fee, DJs, lights, etc, off the chain basically. Read: a gigantic DHV for myself. A few months ago, I was particularly empty on FWBs who happened to be party regulars, and recruited my latest #1, an HB7. What she doesn't make up for in hotness, she has in basically every other department - treats me really well (and pays for shit), always dtf and fun, she's basically a good friend that I also fuck. Somehow, I've managed to dodge any "what are we" or "i like you" conversations so far, but I would be naive to believe should I start heavy kino/kclosing another girl in front of her that she'd be totally cool with it. Key Point = I Don't Want To Lose This One.

Aforementioned HB comes to basically every party lately and stays til the end. Even kinda follows me around. Well, here's the dilemma, last Friday she went home, and in her absence I hit it off a bit with this HB8/9. New girl was a bit drunk (and upset from becoming recently single) but some serious IOIs and kino. Telling me she remembered me from my last party, trying to tend bar with me, heavy flirting with me but not really anyone else. I could have easily k-closed later in the night but something about a crying girl, a little voice says "don't be that guy". Either way, 88% sure I've got a green light next party she comes to... likely this Friday.

Which brings my dilemma. Of course, HB7 will be there and likely at my side often. I think the question I'm asking should be pretty obvious.

Well the problem with the fwb is that she is a level 2 clinger, anyways you have to teach the frame and set bounderies from the beginning, is very uncomfortable to game new target in front of fbw(at least for me it is).

Very true. I haven't been very overt about this yet. She hasn't brought up any "I like you" or "what are we" stuff yet, but I've put a good amount of thought into that conversation for when it does arrive. As for the party, I only hit on/gamed other targets to a certain extent in front of her. However, as fate had it, nothing controversial happened this time, but it's sure to still be a factor in future parties - esp now considering I have TWO new targets to game... I'm almost hoping that soon she does bring up some kind of serious conversation so I can set the boundaries then. I can tell you for sure, she is falling for me, and does NOT want me to kiss or take home other girls.

Thanks for the confirm skills, but shouldn't "bringing up the talk" be her job? Obviously she's getting pretty possessive, but conversation topics are always light and so is the girlfriend/boyfriend type stuff.

Another possibility is that she doesn't want to bring anything up, or really open up because she is afraid she'll scare me off. Either way, it's a situation I've been in before, and one I'm sure to repeat. I just don't see how bringing up "we should be seeing other people too" overly is going to do any good. I do mention in conversations, joking about things like group sex and sleeping with other people, but it's finicky.