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Author:  yung-gun [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 9:23 am ]
Post subject:  i need some help.
ok so there this girl in my class. she sits right next to me, yes she is attractive.
mind you i am a tall black dude. she is a white girl. i am about 6 ft 3. i can tell she stares at me when i am not looking or when i am reading. its one of those feels. and you can see her through the side of your eye. i never want to turn sideways and look at her because i dont want to embarass her, i know how i would feel if i stared at someone and they just turned and looked at me. theres this short white boy next to her that she talks to constantly. so I would think she is outgoing and easy to talk to. so one day she closes her book and puts her head down. i muster up the courage to make my move and turn and ask her;
''hey, whats wrong?'' i picked bad timing it was when she was staring at me. she froze up and said w-what? she turned red and now she doesnt even look at me anymore. I've gotten close with plenty of girls shy and outgoing but I've never made one go aspie.

tl;dr i made a girl go aspie and she doesn't want to talk to me wat do?
Author:  Krista Steenbergen [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 12:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: i need some help.
Hi young-gun,

as a woman I would suggest you could playfully mention it to her and astound her with her complete honesty.

"Hi, the other day I tried to talk to you, ever since you are a complete MYSTERY to me and I don't know what to do. Usually I easily have my way with woman, but you seem to have put a spell upon me, please help me out here?"

BTW her blushing seems to be a sign of her surrender? Just enjoy her shyness and play with it a little bit..

Good luck!
Author:  Reality Show [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 5:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: i need some help.
For me, if something goes awkward, I just keep pushing it. If they don't like it or want to feel bad, that's up to them. Just have fun. Talk to more people.
Author:  yung-gun [ Mon Feb 18, 2013 11:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: i need some help.
thanks for the help!
shes talkin to me normally now lmao
Author:  helloimalady [ Tue Feb 19, 2013 3:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: i need some help.
Quote:
ok so there this girl in my class. she sits right next to me, yes she is attractive.
mind you i am a tall black dude. she is a white girl. i am about 6 ft 3. i can tell she stares at me when i am not looking or when i am reading. its one of those feels. and you can see her through the side of your eye. i never want to turn sideways and look at her because i dont want to embarass her, i know how i would feel if i stared at someone and they just turned and looked at me. theres this short white boy next to her that she talks to constantly. so I would think she is outgoing and easy to talk to. so one day she closes her book and puts her head down. i muster up the courage to make my move and turn and ask her;
''hey, whats wrong?'' i picked bad timing it was when she was staring at me. she froze up and said w-what? she turned red and now she doesnt even look at me anymore. I've gotten close with plenty of girls shy and outgoing but I've never made one go aspie.

tl;dr i made a girl go aspie and she doesn't want to talk to me wat do?
haha, Aspie?? as in Asperger's?? What is Aspie?
Hmm, I think there are two possibilities:
A) she likes you and she was blushing because you were talking to her.
B) it is not clear yet whether she likes you, but you caught her off guard and embarrassed her by asking her what's the matter. The fact she doesnt look at you makes me think this is the case.

In either case you should keep talking to her to find out. Youve already established the inital contact. try to talk to her more. try to make her comfortable around you again, and show that you're a nice guy.
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