I have no problem dealing with very sexually aggressive girls in the club and other high energy environments, its easier to close, but it makes me uncomfortable when they are acting very forward in a lower energy place, like a bar without people dancing and loud music.
This has happened a few times to me, the time it made me most uncomfortable was recently.
There is a lot of sexual tension between me and a girl in my social circle, and she tends to get very sexual with a lot of boys. I think she does this for the attention.
Most of the time I pass it off as boring, and that I'm not impressed or phased by her saying and doing very sexual things.
However in a bar, where there was quiet music and an empty dancefloor, she started to grind on me whilst I was walking across. I don't think that she is doing that in this environment to try and kiss me, and I think that she would just if I did go in for the close that time.
I just stood there looking like a bit of a tool in front of her and her friends, and they said I looked really awkward, which I was.
I suppose my question here is how to deal with these girls who are being like this, but just for laughs or for attention in front of her friends?
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