This is my second time talking to a girl on a phone. The last time i talk to a girl on the phone was two years ago. So i pick up her phone number 2 months ago and i couldn't call her because i was too busy with school. So i decided to take the advice on forum to call her instead of texting her. I felt very nervous at the second, i manage to anchor myself. So i call her we talk about 7 minutes now i don't know what to say on the phone or how long the phone conversation should be so i just let everything out. i don't remember but i'll try.
I started asking what she was doing, her family, friends, it was good but i felt like she wasn't investing enough i don't know but again i don't have experience with phone calls with girls. During the phone calls it was a little bit hard for me to understand her since she's from france. while i was listening to her she mentions that she doesn't like nerds. I asked her "you don't like nerds?" she said yeah so i said "so nerds aren't really that type of your guy? she said what? i repeated the question again she said she didn't say that. I felt like i messed up i should've listen carefully she said she have to leave right now
Me: so can we meet up on saturday?
her: no I am going to the mall with my friends tomorrow
me: ok so how about next friday or saturday would be good
her: I'll text you then
me: alright cool then.
so here i am sitting on a chair waiting and i ask my friend about it and he basically said don't be needy just be patient. The reason I did phone call instead texting because in my opinion it just shows that your a man and it shows her that you get what you want. your not like one of those guys texting. I'm not really creative when it comes to texting I like calling instead
Since i have no experience with phone calls talking to girls I really appreciate if you give me a tip or advice, your experience anything. I'm pretty open to new ideas still an afc though
PS since i can't remember any calls i'll put on recording next time
