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Author:  marrybanger [ Fri Feb 15, 2013 11:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Need help on getting Friend with benefits FWB!!

To me, having sex is fun. Thing is, I have never slept with any girls beside my girlfriend. I'm not ready for any serious relationship at this moment, but I would still like to have sex with a girl who has the need.

I'm actually seeing this girl who is clearly attracted to me physically, I wanted to be in a relationship with her,
but things didn't work out. so right now I want nothing more than sex with her.

How do I start getting FWB? Any Ideas on how to deal with this girl? Do I just be straight forward with her and have a little talk about our relationship? Thanks in Advance

Author:  96Firebird [ Sat Feb 16, 2013 12:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need help on getting Friend with benefits FWB!!

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Do I just be straight forward with her and have a little talk about our relationship?
In short, yes.

Be aware, FWB isn't for everyone. You said you wanted a relationship with her, but it didn't work out? I'm not sure what that means, but it sounds like you had feelings for her. These feelings cannot exist in order for a FWB relationship to work.

How I bring it up is, I say I am just looking to have fun. Nothing serious, just a fun time. She'll get the hint. And it is up to her whether or not she is down for it. You can't really do anything about that. Don't promise a relationship in the future, don't try to play mind games. Be up front about it.

Author:  marrybanger [ Sat Feb 16, 2013 12:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need help on getting Friend with benefits FWB!!

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Do I just be straight forward with her and have a little talk about our relationship?
In short, yes.

Be aware, FWB isn't for everyone. You said you wanted a relationship with her, but it didn't work out? I'm not sure what that means, but it sounds like you had feelings for her. These feelings cannot exist in order for a FWB relationship to work.

How I bring it up is, I say I am just looking to have fun. Nothing serious, just a fun time. She'll get the hint. And it is up to her whether or not she is down for it. You can't really do anything about that. Don't promise a relationship in the future, don't try to play mind games. Be up front about it.
Hey thx for the reply. What I meant by it didnt work out is that after knowing her for a while, she doesnt seem to be the kind of girl who I want to have long term relationship with. But I am still physically attracted to to her. Some strong hints tells me that she is also physically attracted to me, but I'm sure she doesn't want anything serious with me either.

Author:  marrybanger [ Sat Feb 16, 2013 9:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need help on getting Friend with benefits FWB!!

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