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Author:  marrybanger [ Fri Feb 15, 2013 4:47 am ]
Post subject:  Good Looking Guys vs Ugly Guys
Do looks Matter? YES IT DOES! And the winner is the Ugly guy.

First of all I am not an expert on this, everything I am going to say is based on my experience with myself, my friends and my female friends. Lastly, Definitely don't take this as a guide line.

MINDSETS

Ugly Guys: Oh I'm ugly, if I don't take the initiative to approach women, I am going to be alone forever. Therefore, the ugly guy keeps approaching woman without the fear of rejection, because they know they are not good looking and would expect to be rejected anyways. Their mind set would be to get 1 YES out of 100 NO.

Good looking Guys: Man, why do I have to take initiative to approach women? Im decent looking, girls should give me IOI first, before I even consider going up to them. Or even better, they should come to me! Therefore, the good looking guys does not approach as much as the ugly guys do. And when they do, they fear rejection. Because they would start to self defeat themselves and question their looks in the case of rejection.

PS:

Ugly guys: The guys who are actually not good looking and they know it.
Good looking guys: NO! Not the guys who thinks they are good looking when they are not. I am talking about guys who are actually good looking, and they know it! Guys who get compliments from their friends and family about their good looks.

I too used to think that being good looking is a good thing when it comes to picking up woman. I had that mind set because whenever I hang out with my female friends as a teenager, they would constantly point of good looking guys on the street or in the mall. They make it seems like they want to have sex or marry that guy. Like that guy is their dream guy or something.

But as I grew older, I realized that all that admiring was just total bullshit. Good looking guys are just good looking, nothing else. All my female friends kept saying how they want their BF to be like this or that. But they all ended up dating some ugly guys, and they are deeply in love with these "Not good looking guys".

Because of this strong false mindset. I focus way too much attention on my appearance. Myself is not a good looking guy, but I do look good. Meaning that I do my hair, I wear clothes that are good on me, I workout to build muscle etc. Therefore, I look good when Im feeling good, or whenever I dont have a bad hair day. Getting compliments from my female friends and shit. I was happy at first, "Hey I can be good looking too." But guess what, that didnt do shit to me.... I kept screwing up dates with girls who clearly show interest in me, not having the guts to approach. etc

My fat "ugly friend" on the other hand, doesn't care about his appearance at all. He doesn't shave when he goes out, he dresses badly, doesn't do his hair. etc. He doesn't seem to be nervous at all! He just kept approaching women and getting atleast 7 - 8 all the time! When I talk to him about this, all he said was "Its all about confidence..."

This really changed my view on how good looks don't matter at all. Even if you are good looking, girls will just check you out and walk pass you and nothing will happen unless you approach with confident.
Author:  bundy [ Fri Feb 15, 2013 5:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Good Looking Guys vs Ugly Guys
this post is wildly incorrect, you are saying that all things even it is preferable to be ugly than to be good looking? :lol: :lol:

maybe some guys who are good looking wont approach as much for the reasons you mentioned, but for every 1 good looking guy like that, there are probably 10 ugly dudes who wont approach because they are ugly and fear rejection themselves. you say the ugly guy keeps approaching women but this is based on what? your one ugly friend? the ugly guys i know are worse about approaching in general than those who arent
Author:  marrybanger [ Fri Feb 15, 2013 5:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Good Looking Guys vs Ugly Guys
Quote:
this post is wildly incorrect, you are saying that all things even it is preferable to be ugly than to be good looking? :lol: :lol:

maybe some guys who are good looking wont approach as much for the reasons you mentioned, but for every 1 good looking guy like that, there are probably 10 ugly dudes who wont approach because they are ugly and fear rejection themselves. you say the ugly guy keeps approaching women but this is based on what? your one ugly friend? the ugly guys i know are worse about approaching in general than those who arent
Like I said, this is just based on my experience with my friends. And not just based on one friend. But also other friends and some people that I know. Point is, being good looking is not what most people think. And this is also based on my good looking friends. One of them doesn't even have a gf until 22years old.
Author:  Noah E [ Fri Feb 15, 2013 6:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Good Looking Guys vs Ugly Guys
Interesting take on it, but I think it really depends on the person. Some people who are considered "pretty boys" will take the initiative and be very social and natural at pickup and some wont. Also I do agree about the female admiration of good looking guys, they say "oh my gawd" but expect him to approach them (which he wont, unless he's a PUA or outgoing). That basically makes the entire chance of an interaction worthless since the conversation never even started.

Full disclosure: I've been called a pretty boy since I was like 8

Damn persian eyelashes...
Author:  R.C [ Fri Feb 15, 2013 9:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Good Looking Guys vs Ugly Guys
There's really no such thing as ugly guy / good looking guy.


I've been told by girls that I look like Brad Pitt. Then again , other girls said Brad Pitt isn't really a good looking guy.

Same thing the other way around.I see girls that my friends consider 10+ and I wouldn't even throw them a mercy fuck because I barely see them as 6's or 7's.

Looks are extremely subjective. What some love , others hate.

I see great looking guys every day who every girl I know says they are ugly as hell. That's only because they don't take care of their appearance at all.


Genetics are irrelevant.

Fat ?

Work out.


Got zits & pimples ?

All kinds of SPAM for that.


Look like a homeless guy ?

Haircut & shave.


Clothes make you look like a white-boy wanna be gangster ?

Dress with some style. Most of you do not realize how important the way you dress is to women. Like I said , if you dress Brad Pitt in your clothes and dress you in his , YOU are gonna get more attention from the girls.

I'm serious , looks don't matter. Spend some time near your girlfriends. Go out with them. I've been winging one of my girls the other day (which is awesome btw , to wing a girl - you can learn a lot). I've been showing her cute guys left and right , if she didn't like the way he dressed she wouldn't give him 1 minute of her time.
Author:  ian_mezza [ Fri Feb 15, 2013 12:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Good Looking Guys vs Ugly Guys
LOOKS DOES NOT MATTER.

If you don't have the looks, please dress smartly. You will outshine the handsome dudes.
Author:  PUA Reality [ Wed Feb 27, 2013 4:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Good Looking Guys vs Ugly Guys
Being ugly is a disadvantage to being good looking. If your good looking there are higher chances that you will generally have a higher level of confidence than an ugly person. Everyone will have that fear of breaking ice, but add an additional sense of insecurity to that process and you have less chances of taking that leap. Being good looking is therefor an advantage.
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