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| Author: | pontine [ Thu Feb 14, 2013 3:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girl I dated goes cold after 2 mths away. What to do? |
We were friends for a year at uni and towards the end of last year, we went out and slept together for a few weeks. However, she had a bf. During the holidays, she went back home. We had minimal contact and when the term started she seems to have avoided me. I jokingly told her to come out and she agreed, suggesting to meet at a mutual friend's party. She was hours late and stayed for a few minutes before leaving. Anyway, I want her. But i'm also not going crazy over her if I can't. I've gone no contact on her for a week. I owe her something and she recently asked for it back. When we meet up, should I just keep playing it cool and not mention meeting up at all, but maybe ask in a few weeks, or do I go straight out and talk about our time last year? |
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| Author: | Kirin [ Thu Feb 14, 2013 7:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl I dated goes cold after 2 mths away. What to do? |
You don't have a lot of options do you? Seems very oneitus-ish. Generally, I would go talk and hang out with a girl who wants to make time to hang out with me. But if you're desperate for her, you can just tell...hey what's up? haven't seen you in a while it feels like you're avoiding me. Sometimes being as straightforward is the best way to deal with bullshit. |
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| Author: | pontine [ Fri Feb 15, 2013 3:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl I dated goes cold after 2 mths away. What to do? |
Yeah I know. I was down for a while when it happened but I've cleared my head now. It's just that things are so busy and she was one of the few people I got pretty close to. I was planning to go straight to the point so let's see how it goes. |
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| Author: | Themagicalone [ Sat Feb 16, 2013 4:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girl I dated goes cold after 2 mths away. What to do? |
Quote: Yeah I know. I was down for a while when it happened but I've cleared my head now. It's just that things are so busy and she was one of the few people I got pretty close to.
Let us know and it defintely sounds like oneitis I suggest you start gaming girls hard more options equals less caring about one girl
I was planning to go straight to the point so let's see how it goes. |
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