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| Author: | ASmoothEminence [ Sun Feb 10, 2013 6:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What is considered too sexual or too direct? |
I went out sarging yesterday and approached a few women and number closed two. I also had a goal to watch how the guys who get female attention act and behave. So far this is what I observed: A good looking guy was getting a decent amount of female attention but I feel that is the only reason. I saw times where he would be looking for something, like he was lost. Either way all he really did was be there and try to get into the space of the girls. The girls found him attractive and danced with him, so I feel like he has this entitlement and accepts that as his frame. It does seem that he can't keep the girls interested long enough to close. Just initial attraction. Another guy was caressing girls within 5 minutes of talking to them. However, it seemed like it was never let up. Caress, caress, pull them close, and other things. He was direct but there were times he also was looking for something and it was clear he was looking to bang. Do you guys think this guy gets the most tail? Or is he just getting lucky? He didn't seem to close and usually lost the girl, but then again, you guys state that direct game is the way to go. It seems like he was being too direct or is that just my social conditioning talking? |
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| Author: | MrBreeze [ Sun Feb 10, 2013 9:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is considered too sexual or too direct? |
Is there really too sexual or too direct (within the confines of the law)?? I havent found that to be true. Any woman thats uptight is not worth the effort. WOMEN LOVE SEX.... Find the ones that get that and dont waste your time on the rest. This holds true for one nights and LTRs. |
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| Author: | ian_mezza [ Mon Feb 11, 2013 6:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is considered too sexual or too direct? |
Direct is telling a gal upfront that you want to screw her and make her orgasm. Sexual is playing mind games by using body language, dressing smart, etc to get the gal you want. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Mon Feb 11, 2013 7:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is considered too sexual or too direct? |
Reminds me of poker, or chess. You can't just say "Play aggressive all the time", because it depends on your opponent. Sometimes being too aggressive will work against you. And sometimes being too conservative won't get you results. Granted, standing on the dancefloor at the club is not the time to be shy, so getting aggressive and sexual is probably the way to go. Yes, we all know that the better you look, the better women will respond to you on average. But that's a moot point if you aren't really good looking. Therefore you need to rely on solid game in order to make things happen. This holds true for daygame as well. |
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