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| Author: | letstrythisagain [ Tue Feb 05, 2013 2:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Is there a rush? Does time not closed hurt? |
Hot Yoga has a billion 10's. I used to go when I was in a relationship for 10yrs but never thought about picking up there. Now, I go about 20 mins early and mull around at the end getting my shoes on, etc... Last yoga class of the night hanging around and talking to people is great. Anyways... One girl who is beautiful I have a rapport with, we were next to each other a few classes now and I can feel theres an attraction. Last 2 nights she ended up sitting next to me to get shoes on, just by chance that was the only seat open. Anyways, 2 nights ago I smiled and said "Hi" and left, last night i ended up next to her in class and she smiled at me, after we were sitting next to each other getting shoes on and I introduced myself and told her it was just a coincidence I kept putting my mat next to hers, she laughed told me her name and I said have a good night. I'm in no rush, i'm not nervous at all I will ask her number if it the best move, but maybe in this setting it makes sense just to chat a few more times first and build the attraction and comfort more? |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Feb 05, 2013 3:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is there a rush? Does time not closed hurt? |
Not trying to be negative, but the whole yoga/aerobics class seems almost like too much of a cliche of a place to pick up women. I mean, I suppose under the right circumstances it could be a gold mine, but I think people would catch on pretty quickly to the fact that you are there trying to pick up women. It's very similar to picking up women in a school classroom environment, but worse in some ways since you can't really talk to her during the workout. So you are relegated to striking up conversation afterwords, which amounts to little more than brief small talk and a few parting comments. All you can do is try to build rapport really quick and try to number close or something, but then you turn into the guy from class who is coming on too strong, and nobody wants to be that guy. Yes, you can try to slow play it, but then you are trying to get to know a girl who you only see once or twice a week. And you develop small tidbits of rapport which are hard to build into something bigger, meanwhile she is living her life and probably fucking other dudes when she's not in yoga class. |
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| Author: | letstrythisagain [ Tue Feb 05, 2013 4:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is there a rush? Does time not closed hurt? |
but i actually do hot-yoga, i'm good at it, it's obvious to people there that i'm not a newbie looking to pick up I actually have a reason to be there. It's tough, half naked sweating 10's, it has to be mined! I have never as far as hit on anyone there until this little back and forth. I agree it is a tough spot, but for me I love yoga, Love the women that go and love the yogi's attitude as a general rule. I'll sniff it out a bit and let you know what I come up with. But showing up early and shooting the shit with the people working there, hanging around, etc... and then at the end of class taking your time (its not creepy because your tired, sweaty and everyone is moving slow) seems to be an opportunity. I love this PUA stuff, I talk to everyone I see now and have some options starting to spring up! I want a Yogi 10 as my next conquest. |
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| Author: | JRoc32 [ Tue Feb 05, 2013 5:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is there a rush? Does time not closed hurt? |
There you go you know what you want. As long as your not to needy. There not looking at you as the creep of the class trying to pick everyone up. Play it smart. This girl goes to your yoga class. Seeing your already trying to build a rapport with her is excellent. Next thing would be to find a reason for you guys to see eachother outside of class. Find that reason (Couple friends from my yoga class are going out for drinks). You could simply get to the point and just ask her after a couple more times of building rapport. Your the only one in this situation. If your getting all the right signs then why beat around the bush. |
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| Author: | letstrythisagain [ Tue Feb 05, 2013 6:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is there a rush? Does time not closed hurt? |
yeah i just want to be absolutely sure not to get the creep label, a few more nights of seeing her. Also, a friend who I went to high school with is a yoga teacher in my city at another studio, seems from facebook shes the Don, i'm going to her class Friday and she has pumped up this meetup in her yoga facebook page. To everyone in her class that follows facebook, the Don's long lost friend is making an appearance. Couldn't be teed up any better. |
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| Author: | Knowing100 [ Tue Feb 05, 2013 10:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Is there a rush? Does time not closed hurt? |
I would rather take into account that the girl shows out interest. Therefore I would call the girl to a party to my place. |
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