Quick background, been talking to this girl for a little over a month. Have been out together a few times, she comes over for movies, makes me food, etc... We haven't fucked yet, but it is inevitable. Or so I thought...
Last Sunday night she came over for a movie, but had to leave pretty early. Nothing sexual happened that night, as we watched it with my roommate and his girl (who is this girl's friend) in our movie room. As she is leaving, she asks me what I'm doing Friday night, and invites herself out. So Friday night rolls around, we go out pretty early because my roommate works as a DJ at the bar and he needs to set up and stuff. She was supposed to meet us out around midnight, but she got out of work early and rode with her friend to my house first.
So the night was going good until about 11pm, when this girl blacks out. Since I know the bartenders, I get pretty strong drinks and I get doubles but charged for singles. Its nice, but definitely backfired that night... She is only about 5'2" and doesn't weigh much. So I'm sitting with this girl at the bar while she is grinding my leg and sitting on my lap, have her friend come over and take care of her while I go to the bathroom. They go over to the DJ booth, she sits on a stool in there and passes out on my arm. So there goes my night, as I now have to babysit her since she decided to get too drunk. We rode with my roommate and he doesn't get done until 2am, so I just wait it out. Eventually she wakes up and says she has to throw up, at which point she gets up and tries to walk to the bathroom. She faceplants leaving the DJ booth because there is a step down, and now I am even more embarrassed. I pick her up and tell her friend to take her to the bathroom since I can't. She throws up, at which point it is time to leave so we get home and get her on a couch and she quickly passes out.
The next morning I get awoken to her climbing into my bed. She was sad that I made her sleep on the couch, and I told her I didn't want her throwing up in my bed. She tells me she feels like shit, I'm still tired at this point and fall back asleep. So we sleep for a bit, eat some breakfast, go back into my bed and fall asleep to a movie again. She finally leaves with her friend, and I guess she started balling her eyes out as soon as they left my house.
Her phone had died, so she texted me when she got home and said "Sorry for being an asshole last night
". I just say I had a good time at the beginning of the night and thanked her for apologizing, then told her I didn't want to sound like her father but to take it easy on the drinking next time. She told me to stop making her feel worse as she had been crying all day. Later on she says, "I'm never drinking again or coming over ". I texted her yesterday about the game, and the conversation really didn't go anywhere so I ended it. Haven't heard from her today, and she usually texts me in the morning.So, do you guys think she is embarrassed, or has since lost interest? To be honest, I have no plans on dating this girl, she comes with too much baggage. But I'd like to keep her around as I grow my stable, its nice to have one you can count on when things get dull with the others. Thanks for any advice...
