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| Author: | Donny G [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 7:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Question. "You used me". |
Quick question. I recently F closed a girl who I was talking to for less than a week. She came round a few days later and we F closed again. Then I get busy through the week so cannot text too often. Anyway, on Sunday she asks how my night was. I say "Amazing". She replies with "I hope she was worth it, the girl you fucked" (I didn't). I ignored this as I saw it as a shit test. Then she started saying how she felt used by me and I have hurt her. Then she stalked my twitter. Then she started saying I am not a nice guy bla bla bla. She knows my view on sex, that it is something to be shared and enjoyed by two people. Anyway, I told her I wasn't going to talk to her while she felt argumentative. I also apologised that she felt that way, but there was little that could be done other than perfecting the art of time travel. Then eventually stopped replying to her nonesense and froze her out. Should I have handled it differently? |
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| Author: | cerebralassassin [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 9:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Question. "You used me". |
could you please elaborate more, was she loved up? a bunny boiler? religious etc.... did you treat her like you were in it for sex only or lead her on, did you tell it was for fun or serious, the only reason she would act like that is if she was loved up, if you made it clear that it was just a sexual relationship and nothing serious then she wouldnt react like that if you make a girl feel used, shes going to react like shes been used if you set the boundaries then theres no issues |
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| Author: | Donny G [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 10:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Question. "You used me". |
I was only talking to her for a few days. Then f closed in under a week. I never lead her on. I always told her sex wasn't a big thing to me and I see it as something that should be enjoyed. Whatever happens happens. Never once lead her on or even mentioned a relationship. Not sure how she could be loved up after two meetings... |
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| Author: | cerebralassassin [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 10:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Question. "You used me". |
it sounds like she made too much of a big deal about the sex and read into it too much... so she feels cheap and used and is importantly unhinged, block her from facebook twitter and anything else and move on, otherwise you may have a bunny boiler situation (if you dont know what bunny boiler is watch fatal attraction) |
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| Author: | Donny G [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 11:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Question. "You used me". |
I know what a bunny boiler is. I was just wondering if I handled it properly by not trying to qualify myself to her and just froze her out after the nonsense. |
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