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Author:  Jonez [ Sun Feb 03, 2013 6:06 pm ]
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Hey guys. Well, last night I went out with my friends and some crazy shit happened. There I was with three friends and a group of guys that I didn't really knew when a friend (girl) of one my friends arrived with two other beautiful girls. I tried to hit on one of the girls but then a friend of hers arrived and they kept talking all through the night and I realized she wasn't interested in me. There was another girl that was sitting in the sidewalk and one of my friends was hitting on her, but she didn't care about him and he went out of things to say. I then realized that she was looking to me all the time, and I started a conversation. We talked for some time and then I sat besides her in the sidewalk. We talked a little more and she said "It's too cold (or too noisy, or too boring, or too crowded, something like that) here". I said "Yeah, let's go for a walk".

We went for a walk and I put my arm in her shoulder. Then she started kissing me and we kissed for a long time. We walked a little more and sat in the street. She said she had three piercings. I said "Besides the one in the nose, where are the two others?". She said she had one in one place that I don't remember and another one in her nipple (yeah I only remember about the one in her nipple hehehehehe :lol: ), but she didn't let me see the piercing in her nipple.

We walked to another place and as we kissed more and more she sat in my lap. What was making me perplexed was the fact that my cock wasn't getting hard! She even grabbed my hand and put in her ass, and it remained flat. It only got a little harder (just a little) when I started kissing her nipple. She then unzipped my pants and started doing a handjob in me (yeah she was freaking crazy). Still it wouldn't get hard! In my mind I was thinking "I wonder if I'm gay, what the hell is going on?". It started getting a little hard but then as some people were passing by she stopped. She tried again but it was flat, what the hell! We then kissed some more and went back to the place where our friends where, where we talked a little more and kissed.

I don't understand. I hadn't fapped for 13 days and I tought this would make me get hard faster and cum fast. I don't know if this is related anyway. Has this ever happened to you? What do you think happened for me? By the way, this is not common, normally it gets hard fast... especially if a girl is sitting in my lap or if I'm with my hand in her ass.
Author:  Jason. [ Sun Feb 03, 2013 6:22 pm ]
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Well yes this happened to me, 2 times. Both of them i was waisted, one time it was only temporary, because the girl was sexy , and the other time it just didnt work because i was not attracted to the girl.
Author:  Jonez [ Sun Feb 03, 2013 6:36 pm ]
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But I was not wasted, and the girl was freaking hot. Maybe it was because I had never kissed a girl so beautiful, and she was very experienced, and it got very clear to her that I was very inexperienced (had only kissed 6 girls in my life and I hadn't got that far with any of those girls as I did with this last one).

I wonder if the no fapping thing had any to do with it... But I don't think it had, it would make no sense.

Thanks for the response. :wink:
Author:  ian_mezza [ Sun Feb 03, 2013 11:33 pm ]
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That is rather odd and weird.
Author:  Jonez [ Sun Feb 03, 2013 11:45 pm ]
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:(
Author:  KimPa [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 12:38 am ]
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1. If you had few drinks, it normally takes longer to get hard, and most of the time longer to cum too..
2. You are not attracted to her..
3. You don't feel comfortable in public.
4. You are gay..
5. You masturbated many times that day
I can't think of any other reason why you wouldn't get a boner though if she is jerking you off.. Most of the time it is because of alcohol though..
Author:  Jonez [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 12:58 am ]
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I thought a lot about it and talked to a friend and came to the conclusion that it was probably because I was a bit nervous... She was the 7th girl I had kissed in all my life, the hottest of all and the only one which I got to this level... In fact I hadn't event grabbed others girls boobs or ass while kissing them.

In truth I wasn't feeling that nervous, but I felt a little awkward because I looked really inexperienced while with her, like I didn't knew where to put my hand, and my body language is not really good, it's a little stiff.

By the way, I had only drank one tequila shot and the effect had already waned out. I really got me asking myself if I was gay while kissing her and shit, but I know I'm not... I had a pleasurable time with her, I enjoyed a lot licking her nipple (never done it before) and I normally get hard pretty fast when touching/being touched by girls. In truth my dick did get hard... but it took a lot longer than it should have.
Author:  KimPa [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 1:08 am ]
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Fair enough, It's probably because you got nervous.. Still though, the hotter the women i'm kissing the harder i get.. Strange in your situation.. With time and experience you will get better at this.. It's all in your head buddy! Just enjoy the moment, don't think about what will happen and what has already happened! be there in that certain moment enjoying what you are doing.. Enjoying touching her hard nipples! If they are hard, guess who made her get wet? You did!!
Author:  Jonez [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 1:14 am ]
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Thanks mate... this kind of experience is a little embarassing, so it's good hearing some encouragement.
Author:  Jason. [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 1:18 am ]
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haha idk, i was worried cuz of this so i did a little research. theres nothing wrong it was probably just anxiety. in this case from reading how you put things, it could be that u werent being the one in charge. she was the one moving things forward and maybe that played against you cuz u werent feeling like the man in that situation.

but dont shit happends

owen
Author:  Jonez [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 1:21 am ]
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By the way, while I didn't felt the nervousness I usually felt while around hot girls, I couldn't keep a conversation going with her (and she was trying). It came to a point when she said "I'm trying to keep a conversation, but it's hard" (not in a serious way, but I got the message that I was being boring.

I came to the conclusion that I was nervous even if I was not feeling it (that warmth inside your body you feel when you're shy, you know?) because I didn't knew what to say and couldn't keep a conversation going. I recognized I was seeming really interested. The truth is that I'm like an OK conversationalist, something I want to improve, but I was looking like a terrible one yesterday, hehehe.
Author:  Jonez [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 1:24 am ]
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Quote:
haha idk, i was worried cuz of this so i did a little research. theres nothing wrong it was probably just anxiety. in this case from reading how you put things, it could be that u werent being the one in charge. she was the one moving things forward and maybe that played against you cuz u werent feeling like the man in that situation.

but dont shit happends

owen

Yeah, this is truth. She was more or less "the one in charge" in the situation. While I took her for a walk in the beginning of the interaction, after this she was all "let's go there, let's sit there", and I was just like "Ok, ok". In truth I felt smaller in comparison to her. She kissed a lot better than me (and I learnt a lot with this), knew what to do and when to do, and I barely knew where to put my hand, hahahaha. I'm a virgin and she isn't. That's why I was feeling awkward.
Author:  Jason. [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 1:27 pm ]
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Btw nice work geting that far with your 7th girl.

So what you should do is reframe your inexperience to something more kinkier, like a teacher student roleplay maybe

Owen
Author:  Jonez [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 11:51 pm ]
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Thanks. I think it was more luck than anything that I got that far (but of course my new developed confidence helped a lot).
Interesting idea about the teacher and student thing, hahahaha.
She added me on Facebook and we talked a lot today, I'll ask her out next week because it's Carnival here in Brazil.
Author:  SE23 [ Tue Feb 05, 2013 12:05 am ]
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Nerves man its all in your head, it can come down to tiredness etc, i wouldn't worry about it, most of us have been there, including me.. I used to have a hot girlfriend and would fail to get it hard because of nerves at the beginning, wanting to play it right. As soon as i forgot it was all going fine ;)
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