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Author:  lakayo [ Sat Feb 02, 2013 5:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Housemate w/ Boyfriend feels attracted to me.. need HELP!

I'm living in a shared house with some more people, and theres this french girl, HB8, 26 years old (I'm 19) but that's not really that important..

She moved in about 2 weeks ago, we've been having "philosophical" conversations about pretty much everything, I negged her a lot at the beggining, done the cube, we even played scisor paper stone betting stupid things like doing pushups, or washing each other's dishes, and I noticed she started to feel very attracted to me..

The problem is, she has a boyfriend in Brazil, and she's living here in London, they are only dating for a few months, and she told me she never cheated on anyone before.. and honestly I don't want to be the reason why she broke up with her boyfriend just cuz I wanted to get my dick wet..wouldn't fit well in my conscience.

To give you guys an idea of how is the SPAM between us, I'll give u an example.. yesterday we were watching a movie on the couch, just the 2 of us, she had her legs on my lap and she was lying on the other side of the couch, I started to massage her legs and got like half an inch away from her pussy before she gives me a small slap on my hand, I didn't say anything, moved my hand just a little bit away, and after a while I was touching her on her hips and thighs, we were teasing each other, I would say things like: "don't bother me, I'm not gonna touch you there, I just like giving massages.." she would smile back and would not say anything about it.

This morning she was in the living room siting and painting, I came from the kitchen after washing some dishes and had my hands cold, I put them on her face and tell her to warm them up, she grabs them and puts them under her ass..

She knows I don't want a serious relationship, and she has a boyfriend and I don't think she wants to cheat on him, but at the same time there is so much sexual tension between us, a few days ago we we're talking about orgasms, and she started teasing me with some sounds, it was in a playful way but still..

I'm 120% sure that if it wasn't for her boyfriend we would be sleeping together by now..


so my question to you, is what would you do in my situation? anyone been through something similar? and what did you do? come on guys.. I need some advice

Author:  VietnameseProdigy [ Sat Feb 02, 2013 5:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Housemate w/ Boyfriend feels attracted to me.. need HELP

I don't understand what you need help for, you either fuck her, or you don't.

Fuck her boyfriend, long distance doesn't work anyways, and she's craving somebodies dick.

She's either going to suck on your dick, or find somebody else's dick to suck on.

Author:  lakayo [ Sat Feb 02, 2013 6:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Housemate w/ Boyfriend feels attracted to me.. need HELP

I think my problem really is I'm trying to be too nice, I told her that I don't want to be the reason if her relationship fucked up.. she talks to her boyfriend everyday on SPAM witch make me feel kind of weird..

I think next time we're alone together, and there's sexual tension between us, I'll just go for the kiss and if it goes well it did, if it doesn't I'll say something like: Sorry, I don't know what I was thinkin' about and freeze her out. maybe that will get her to want me even more so she won't be able to resist..

Author:  ian_mezza [ Sat Feb 02, 2013 7:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Housemate w/ Boyfriend feels attracted to me.. need HELP

Dude ... I would screw her.
Quote:
they are only dating for a few months
A few months does not count as being in a relationship. Trust me, they will break up sooner than you think. She might even suck another dude's dick if you take too long.

Author:  lakayo [ Sat Feb 02, 2013 9:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Housemate w/ Boyfriend feels attracted to me.. need HELP

The problem is, soon as I start to advance she starts resisting cause she "doesn't want to cheat".. my problem here is LMR, and I don't really know how to deal with it in this case.. saying we're not gonna have sex would work if that would be the only form of cheating she knows of, but she is resisting to everything else except for touch.. and even the touch soon as I get too close to her private parts she starts taking my hands off and playing around with me..

Author:  ian_mezza [ Sat Feb 02, 2013 11:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Housemate w/ Boyfriend feels attracted to me.. need HELP

Invite another girl over to the house, play with her infront of the other one. Make her jealous and get her aroused. You might even score a threesome.

Author:  lakayo [ Mon Feb 04, 2013 1:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Housemate w/ Boyfriend feels attracted to me.. need HELP

Quick Update on my situation.

Yesterday in the morning we were talking about exercise, she complained about her abs, and I showed her mine, soon as I lift up my shirt she's touching them, I push her hand away saying:"Hey..move your hands away from my babies" -she laughs about it and nothing else happens.

Later that night we were again watching a movie, I wasn't touching her, she started to grab my arm, we started to mess with each other, making stupid jokes on one another and she would always be punching my arm, or pushing me away in a playful way, then we lie down on the couch on opposite sides, she start to kick me gently with her foot, after a bit I look at her and she points at me with the foot asking for a massage which I give her.. for about 30 minutes.. then when the movie is about to end, I bite her toe to which she responds by pulling her leg away saying: "Are you crazy?" in a surprised way while smiling, and I just say: "I'm hungry, but you've had enough so get away from me" and I throw her feet away, but she puts them next to my body right away.
After a few minutes pizza arrives and I sit with my friend to watch the Super Bowl while she says she's sleepy and goes to sleep.

The reason why I didn't go for a kiss, or for anything further than that at any point during that day, is simply because she always does LMR, she would most likely pull her head away and say something like:"You know I have a boyfriend.." so I'm simply using the Cat-String theory.

Also earlier that day after lunch which we had together, she was opening up to me, saying that she's afraid her relationship isn't going to last long, and she want's to believe her boyfriend is staying faithful to her, even though she told me he is a bit of a player himself, in her own words "he knows how to talk and he's good looking, so if he wants a women he can easily have one..", and she knows he's been going out a few times, but he's telling her that so she thinks he won't do anything bad cause he told her about it..
I even asked her when did she start to feel attracted to me, and she said: I think when I realized you were attracted to me.


My next move is gonna be: bite her neck or other parts of her body when I have the opportunity to do so, avoiding it to seem awkward, I don't want to give her kisses cause, on the cheek they are too friendly in my opinion and on other parts of the body it may come as neediness or show her that I care too much about her, so she might find it weird, but bites are more sexual and can come as playful moves. Maybe that will make her stop resisting..

At this point I know if I go for a real kiss, she won't slap me, but she will probably be upset after it.


As for the inviting a girl over at the house, that might have been a good idea.. if it was allowed to invite people to stay over.

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