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Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 10:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Oddest date ever. *UPDATE
So if you guys want to know what happened with my and this girl at first - just check my post and find my OP. Recently, I called her left a message, no response. So @Rollthedice and another guy at the forums advised me to wait a few days, text her and this is how it went. How do you guys think I did - I'm looking for feedback. Do you think you see any IOI's?

TEXT LOG:
Me: I just seen your twin at the store, was that you? 
Her: What?
Me: There was a girl that looked like you at Macy's but I couldn't tell if it was you (I just made up the Macy's part but turned out to be true!)
Her: Lol in BLAH TOWN? Yea I was there, actually. I didn't expect you to be a Macy's customer
Me: Guilty as charged lol. So I was thinking abt how cool you were and wanted to see what you are up to 
Her: cool? I'm surprised I didn't scare you away, what with almost losing it over my car lol
Me: I don't scare easy lol (DHV?). We'll just look back on it and laugh. I'm going this Sat to get sushi - join me! 
Her: I wish I could - another manager at work got fired so I'm working overtime at the moment, so I'm working till late on Saturday :/
Me: That's fine. I'm only free on weekends. How's Sunday or next weekend? 
Her: No good :/ my cousin's wedding in New Jersey is next weekend (hence why I was at Macy's). Sorry :/ I guess we'll figure something out
Me: It's cool. We got rehearsals (my band) for this gig we're doin' anyway. I'll tell you abt it later. But I do wanna' see you again ;) (TRYING TO BE ALPHA) let me know how the wedding goes. 
Her: sure thing! :) have a nice night!

END.

So 1) I'm looking for feedback guys
2) How do I see her again?
Author:  Fly_Swatter [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 10:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Oddest date ever. *UPDATE
Me: I don't scare easy lol (DHV?)
No that's not DHV, that's DLV. You're saying you're easy. Duh. Instead I'd have said something like "Yeah actually you did scare me. But maybe you're not that much of a monster. I'll have to see."

But anyway, obviously she doesn't appear interested. You asked her twice if she's available. Even for the next weekend. And she said no. Twice. If a girl really likes you, she'll make time for you, no matter what.

Her: No good :/ my cousin's wedding in New Jersey is next weekend (hence why I was at Macy's). Sorry :/ I guess we'll figure something out

That's where I would have stopped texting her. It's your way of saying "I smell your bullshit from all the way over here, ho. Ain't nobody gonna fool me with your shit." And she would have caught on that you got the message.
Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Sat Feb 02, 2013 12:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Oddest date ever. *UPDATE
Come to think it, I agree with you on the, 'I don't scare easy" part as a dlv. I was trying to make her feel comfortable or show I don't get afraid easy when I should have qualified. But she does have anxiety and all that so I wasn't as hard.

I should have admitted that she did scare me a bit and qualified. I really liked this girl n it kinda depressed me now. I mean, it doesn't look like she's not totally uninterested. It's hard to tell. She said, "I thought I'd scared you away" that seemed like a slight IOI but not enough.

1) What can I do to fix this situation?
2) How can I DHV myself again?
3) What if I pinged her in a few days saying how much fun I'm having at a party/Ny (whatever, and not invite her) saying hope she's well, I'll text her later. Than set up a date few days later?
Plan: I'll text her next week and see if she can come out again - if not I'll just forget about her.
Author:  skills360 [ Sat Feb 02, 2013 1:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Oddest date ever. *UPDATE
Quote:
So if you guys want to know what happened with my and this girl at first - just check my post and find my OP. Recently, I called her left a message, no response. So @Rollthedice and another guy at the forums advised me to wait a few days, text her and this is how it went. How do you guys think I did - I'm looking for feedback. Do you think you see any IOI's?

TEXT LOG:
Me: I just seen your twin at the store, was that you? 
Her: What?
Me: There was a girl that looked like you at Macy's but I couldn't tell if it was you (I just made up the Macy's part but turned out to be true!)
Her: Lol in BLAH TOWN? Yea I was there, actually. I didn't expect you to be a Macy's customer
Me: Guilty as charged lol. So I was thinking abt how cool you were and wanted to see what you are up to 
Her: cool? I'm surprised I didn't scare you away, what with almost losing it over my car lol
Me: I don't scare easy lol (DHV?). We'll just look back on it and laugh. I'm going this Sat to get sushi - join me! 
Her: I wish I could - another manager at work got fired so I'm working overtime at the moment, so I'm working till late on Saturday :/
Me: That's fine. I'm only free on weekends. How's Sunday or next weekend? 
Her: No good :/ my cousin's wedding in New Jersey is next weekend (hence why I was at Macy's). Sorry :/ I guess we'll figure something out
Me: It's cool. We got rehearsals (my band) for this gig we're doin' anyway. I'll tell you abt it later. But I do wanna' see you again ;) (TRYING TO BE ALPHA) let me know how the wedding goes. 
Her: sure thing! :) have a nice night!

END.

So 1) I'm looking for feedback guys
2) How do I see her again?


Dude don't call and leave a message, just text, you text was a bit gymmicky but it work cause she was in macys, you were a bit pushy for meet up, drop the lol at your own jokes, it was ok, but you came across a bit try hard... I want you to read this post and the answers in the post:

the-skills-secrets-to-dating-set-up-dat ... 53346.html
Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Sat Feb 02, 2013 2:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Oddest date ever. *UPDATE
Skills, Fly, thanks for your response!

I'm definitely going to read that post as well as take your advice on texting.

However, skills, (1) do you think she was lying and just didn't want to see me or do you think she does want to see me and likes me? Fly sort of gave me the impression that I failed and that she's not gonna' see me again (Not sure if he meant it that way).

(2) Where do I take it from here - how do you think I can see her again and win her over?
Author:  skills360 [ Sat Feb 02, 2013 4:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Oddest date ever. *UPDATE
Quote:
Skills, Fly, thanks for your response!

I'm definitely going to read that post as well as take your advice on texting.
Those post are not to follow robotic is just to understand the concepts behind them, since i am not you and you are not me.
Quote:
However, skills, (1) do you think she was lying and just didn't want to see me or do you think she does want to see me and likes me? Fly sort of gave me the impression that I failed and that she's not gonna' see me again (Not sure if he meant it that way).
That is a horrible mindset, i don't think you failed, i think you push a bit hard for a meet up, and came across like a use car salesman, as i said read the link, and the answers i gave to some dude going through similar situation, i also posted a link to what is call radio silence in there.
Quote:
(2) Where do I take it from here - how do you think I can see her again and win her over?
Maybe, maybe not, only she knows, do not worry about losing a girl, and using tactics, present yourself as your best self, instead of using fake shit, like i saw your twin or whatever that was. Look at some of my text example, i am the same dude in the chat as on with the girl as in my life.

congruent, with my words, actions and INTENT, who i am. My authentic self, she can accept it(great) or Not accepted( great as well since saves me time and i can go for other women that are more compatible).

When you are not congruent with your words, actions, intent. Women see it as weird or needy(unauthentic)...
Author:  VietnameseProdigy [ Sat Feb 02, 2013 5:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Oddest date ever. *UPDATE
dude... the twin text??

Seriously man come on
Author:  ian_mezza [ Sat Feb 02, 2013 7:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Oddest date ever. *UPDATE
Try spiking her emotions by saying something funny via text message. Use the fart routine or say you saw an old man roller blading with nothing but tube socks and a fanny pack.

She will then laugh which will put her in a good state. Now ask her out.
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