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| Author: | ChillW [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 7:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need advice |
Greetings! I've been single out of a 11 year relationship for the past 8 months and have made a little noise the past 8 months but was completely care-free about it. I have a new problem, which is that I did hit it off with someone I'm actually interested in, but being new to this there is risk I could screw it up. The situation is - we went out dancing on a blind double date and had a really good time. Lots of good non-verbal stuff, touching, etc. she seemed interested. There is several danger indicators though: 1) we met there and I never got her #, 2) I suggested we do it again and she said the right things but I pick up a little apathetic body language - like she'd be OK if we did but also OK if we didn't. I have some baggage such as being divorced and having two kids, I'm 29 she's 25, and it might be her first choice not to deal with that baggage unless I'm a pretty smooth operator. So my question is, where do I go from here? Do I get her # from the person who set us up? If so do I then call her? Text her? How soon? With small talk or asking her out again? Play it cool or say "I had a great time." How soon should I try to get her out again? Or do I avoid "date" and try to make it seem like we're keeping it casual by setting up a night out with friends then laying my game once she's there? Anyhow, I'm new at the whole seduction art, so any advice you might have is welcome. |
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| Author: | Fly_Swatter [ Fri Feb 01, 2013 10:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need advice |
Sounds like she was only half-interested at best, by your own interpretation. Not sure why you didn't get her number. That was your duty, not anyone else's. So from my own experience, you probably won't get with her. But you need to learn from your mistakes, so you might as well give it a shot and get her number from whoever. Whatever you text or say to her, don't show too much interest. And certainly do not reveal your feelings. Good luck. |
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