Your dutch, im also dutch. When a girl says stuff like that, be able to grow balls and say something like.. " als ik daar was had had je niet eens tijd om bang te worden terwijl je tussen me armen zit
" (Translates to" If I were there, you wouldn't have time to be afraid of the thunder between my arms "). Stuff like that, show sexual intention, and see how she replies. If she takes it well, take it up a notch step by step by saying stuff so if youre between my arms what would you? If she says something boring, you be like hmm i had other plans for you! And if you do actually land up seeing her , KINO ESCALATE!! good luck