So there are a number of girls that I get into conversation with in text/in person and it goes quite well with them. The girl is asking questions and showing IOI's but when the time comes to pull the trigger and ask for a date/number, they make some excuse or dont respond on text.
I know alot of you would say at this point to move on and I normally do, but I am learning more and more that there are lots of reasons a girl may not respond to the number/date bit and its worth asking.
For example, I was speaking to a girl on facebook. Just a random I messaged. We struck up so good banter and conversation and I eventually asked her to swap numbers and arrange a drink. I got no response at all which seemed strange. So after 3-4 weeks, I saw her face in my inbox again and decided to message her.
me: I didnt realise you were shy?
let me know if you fancy chatting on SPAMher: I am shy X
me: or uninterested x
her: that's a bit harsh, I prefer shy ! x
me: You are gorgeous, you dont need to be shy. Even if I am a bit on the sexy side
her: That is so funny, you do make me laugh!
me: Why not have a chat on SPAM?
her: my SPAM are around.. long story
me: chat on phone?
her: Sure. Evenings are better
me: number is XXXXXXXXXXX
So this convo is today and im fairly confident she will call.
So what I am asking is do you think it is worth asking a girl outright what the problem when she stalls or doesnt respond as opposed to just moving on straight away i.e ..?. and if so how would you do it?