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Author:  testin [ Sun Jan 27, 2013 11:54 pm ]
Post subject:  How do I get over a bad case of 'oneitis'??

Got a bad case of it with a girl I don't really "know". The girl has a boyfriend (not sure as of now though) and said she it wouldn't work between us because of her "past"... Keep in mind she doesn't even know me really either so guess she ain't interested at all...

I know what the first answer is gonna be, and thats to get more chicks... Every girl I even meet is so fucking dull and boring. I get #s fine but I don't even bother texting these girls because I feel they ain't worthy. Any girl that I would even consider going for usually got a boyfriend or aren't really interested... Part of my problem is I'm REALLY picky with the girls I'd even consider dating/messing with...

My standards seem to be way too high for these chicks and I can't look pass that... Any tips?!? I think part of it is the girl i got the itis for makes these other chicks look worse, and the girl I got the itis for isn't special because I know its my "idea" of her that makes her so high value to me... Yet, knowing this I still can't get over it...

Author:  SE23 [ Mon Jan 28, 2013 12:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I get over a bad case of 'oneitis'??

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Got a bad case of it with a girl I don't really "know". The girl has a boyfriend (not sure as of now though) and said she it wouldn't work between us because of her "past"... Keep in mind she doesn't even know me really either so guess she ain't interested at all...

I know what the first answer is gonna be, and thats to get more chicks... Every girl I even meet is so fucking dull and boring. I get #s fine but I don't even bother texting these girls because I feel they ain't worthy. Any girl that I would even consider going for usually got a boyfriend or aren't really interested... Part of my problem is I'm REALLY picky with the girls I'd even consider dating/messing with...

My standards seem to be way too high for these chicks and I can't look pass that... Any tips?!? I think part of it is the girl i got the itis for makes these other chicks look worse, and the girl I got the itis for isn't special because I know its my "idea" of her that makes her so high value to me... Yet, knowing this I still can't get over it...
We've all been there, no one is special, you are your own person, remember that.
Focus on developing yourself, I'm talking about the kind of stuff you see in films like "limitless" get an attitude of abundance and most of all learn the game and approach, approach, approach, after enough f closes and in general number closes you will realise that you have the power, not some random broad.
The saying "there is plenty of fish in the sea" has never been true

Author:  testin [ Mon Jan 28, 2013 12:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I get over a bad case of 'oneitis'??

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Got a bad case of it with a girl I don't really "know". The girl has a boyfriend (not sure as of now though) and said she it wouldn't work between us because of her "past"... Keep in mind she doesn't even know me really either so guess she ain't interested at all...

I know what the first answer is gonna be, and thats to get more chicks... Every girl I even meet is so fucking dull and boring. I get #s fine but I don't even bother texting these girls because I feel they ain't worthy. Any girl that I would even consider going for usually got a boyfriend or aren't really interested... Part of my problem is I'm REALLY picky with the girls I'd even consider dating/messing with...

My standards seem to be way too high for these chicks and I can't look pass that... Any tips?!? I think part of it is the girl i got the itis for makes these other chicks look worse, and the girl I got the itis for isn't special because I know its my "idea" of her that makes her so high value to me... Yet, knowing this I still can't get over it...
We've all been there, no one is special, you are your own person, remember that.
Focus on developing yourself, I'm talking about the kind of stuff you see in films like "limitless" get an attitude of abundance and most of all learn the game and approach, approach, approach, after enough f closes and in general number closes you will realise that you have the power, not some random broad.
The saying "there is plenty of fish in the sea" has never been true
I do understand that, but I have a hard time following it. I REALLY try to do it but the game is so discouraging, the chicks I CAN get dont seem worthy and the chicks I WANT always have a "history" or in a relationship... Keep in mind I do treat both types of girls with the same attitude. im not afraid of rejection, ive dont enough approaches to not fear it. i just dont see the results i want coming in and it is killing me...

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