This might be a bit long but really would appreciate if you could give me your opinion about this and maybe an advice or two.
I asked a girl from my school out but Im not sure does she mean "no" or does she think that I was just joking. Of course since she didn´t say yes you could assume that she doesn´t want to go out with me but due to the circumstanses Im not sure.
Ill explain it to you. My friend, who is a good friend of her, texted her and asked her out as a joke but she misundersood and took him seriously. She got really confused about it and I teased her a bit about it (she´s my friend too) like "Now you´re breaking his heart" etc. obviously stating that I wanted them to go out.
For some reason she got sad and angry about that and left us by ourselves. Im not sure about this but I think she might like me and left because I said I wanted them to go out. (Later she finally undersood that it was a joke).
Now that you know the details of what happened earlier in the day It´s easier to understand why I suspect she think I was just joking.
Later that day I was talking with her on facebook and just spontaneusly asked her out. Here´s the chat translated from Finnish
Her: Loooseeer! ( I call her slave ´cause I make her do all the little things for me and she calls me loser because I "cant" do them by myself)
Me: its really mean to call people by names what bad have I done to you, slave
Her: Well sorryy you should learn to do things on your own :p
Me: Too late to apologize you already hurt my feelings.. Ur gonna have to repay me for this
Her:
I dont want to you deserved it!Me: Luckily I wasnt asking your opinion, Youre going to have to take me out for this
Her: whaat, dont you start this too
She didnt say "no" straight up but I assumed that she meant it so I just went on complaining about how cruel she is to turn me down so easily.
The next day a thought a popped into my head and considered that maybe she didnt say "yes" because she thought I was just joking.
So what do you think was she joking or being serious? How should I approach her about it in school and what should I say?