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Author:  Thessius [ Sat Jan 26, 2013 9:03 pm ]
Post subject:  How do I respond to this?

I just had a girl tell me via text that I may take her out as long as its not a date...how do I respond to this if I should even bother responding at all?

Author:  Redlight [ Sun Jan 27, 2013 8:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I respond to this?

If you're interested in this girl, you should obviousely answer. If not that much, just let it be and maybe she'll write back or call you...
I would choose some cocky comeback like "Aren't you getting a bit ahead of yourself? Who said anything about us dating? I know you're attracted to me, but still... ;-)" or "Why would I wanna date you? I am so very gay" or "I'm not sure yet that you are date-worthy... ;-)"
Whatever yo do, let me know how it works...

Author:  CallMeAlfie [ Sun Jan 27, 2013 8:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I respond to this?

Yes you should bother to answer, in my opinion.

I think there are only two options in this case, both of which you are going to have to make a point:

1 - You need to go a bit to the cocky side and tell her what Redlight said: "Aren't you getting a bit ahead of yourself?" or "Hey, of course it's not a date, I would need to see if you are a psycho before I could date you"

OR

2 - Go for broke and tell her that you don't intend to be just friends with her at all.

The 2nd option makes a huge impact and it's either turn up the attraction, or turn it down completely. I would go with the 1st option, second line...

Author:  sb89 [ Mon Jan 28, 2013 5:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I respond to this?

Yep, Redlight suggested it the best. You need to play the game with a cocky response and see the tables turn.

Author:  GGplayer [ Mon Jan 28, 2013 7:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I respond to this?

I would text her back, and after you finalize the plans say "Alright, it's a date!"

She should think it's funny, be slightly annoyed, but if she persists just be like: "Haha, OK!! You're the one trying to get me to go out anyway, call it what you want."

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