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| Author: | MN87 [ Sat Jan 26, 2013 5:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re-escalating out of the friend zone |
I may be posting this prematurely, but I have a sneaking suspicion that a particular girl is trying to putting me back into the friendzone. I've known her for over a year and in this time span we've hooked up, sexually and non-sexually, more than a handful of times. For a while we were somewhat of an "unofficial" couple too, funny enough Last few weeks with her have been strange. Lack of communication. And when there is, the conversation ends on her terms. (ordinarily it ends on my terms, but i have been oblivious to her intent to friendzone me until now which is when she has gained the upper hand). This girl has tried to keep me in the friendzone before. On two separate occasions. Both times, I was able to climb my way out after a good amount of work. Advice to climb out a 3rd time? Given the recent trend she is showing me, I am thinking i need to isolate myself from her for a while to create some distance, for one, before I try again. Also I think I need to regain the upperhand with respect to our conversations, and make sure conversations always proceed in a non-platonic fashion. |
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| Author: | Robby [ Sat Jan 26, 2013 3:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Re-escalating out of the friend zone |
How about going after other girls and then coming back? why are you clinging onto one girl so long? |
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| Author: | MN87 [ Sun Jan 27, 2013 2:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Re-escalating out of the friend zone |
Quote: How about going after other girls and then coming back? why are you clinging onto one girl so long?
Well, you reserve certain girls for certain roles. Some girls you hook up with, other girls have certain qualities that appeal to you on a different level. She's the second type.I've been kicking it with other girls, but they're all from the first group. You saying I should take a break from this girl and just try to play the field before I go back? |
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| Author: | Fly_Swatter [ Sun Jan 27, 2013 4:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Re-escalating out of the friend zone |
Why do you think she's trying to friendzone you when you've previously hooked up with her? The friendzone is a zone reserved for betas that failed to prove themselves as superior. If you hooked up with her on more than one occasion, she certainly doesn't see you that way. If I were you, I'd wonder why it is that she's behaving the way she is. My hunch is that there's another guy in her world. |
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