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Author:  sc00p [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 7:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Direct Approach question

I wouldn't say that I have AA necessarily but I am currently studying abroad in Oslo and people are a little bit more introverted and I have to start the conversation(unless they are drinking). So I guess what I need some advice on is the direct approach, I know I should compliment them in some sort of way because there really aren't ugly chicks here (It's fucking awesome), but I am unsure of what I should be complementing them on.

Like for example, almost every girl here wears a scarf in the winter because it is so fucking cold and windy, and most of them wear them during classes. They are extremely into fashion here compared to back home in the states, so I figured they put a lot of time into what they are gonna wear. So I was wondering how I could incorporate something about what they are wearing into the direct approach of something like "Hey you're really cute, I just wanted to come over and meet you" without coming off as a creep. I know rejection happens and I laugh at it so I am not to worried about getting shot down.

Any suggestions are more than welcome, I am open to suggestions for club scenarios and just out in public(like at college). Both would be really helpful!

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 9:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Direct Approach question

Quote:
"Hey you're really cute, I just wanted to come over and meet you"
That's fine. Just go out and start opening, no need to overthink it!

Author:  jotsmar [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 10:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Direct Approach question

I personally dont like direct game but i have given it a go plenty of times and ive found that the best openers come straight off the top of my head, i'll begin my approach before ive even considered what i say and when i get to them i use the first thing i notice about them to open be it hair colour, style, smell etc etc. This is also a very good way of developing natural game and conversational skills as it opens you up to be a lot more observant.

On another note i must agree with your comment about all the girls being pretty hot, i've spent a fair bit of time in norway myself and thought the exact same thing, if you havent already been you should try Trompet, its a really cheesy karaoke bar its fairly small and only worth staying an hour or so but its pretty decent gaming in there or so i found.

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