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Author:  Tändelei [ Tue Jan 22, 2013 8:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Do I need to stop a walking set?

I joined a walking set talking to them from the side, they reacted, enjoyed the conversation but they kept on walking as if I wasn't there. I pretended that I wanted to go the same direction but when I intentionally stood still they just kept on walking.

Do I need to stop a walking set?

Author:  Tändelei [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 3:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Do I need to stop a walking set?

Push

Author:  ASmoothEminence [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 3:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Do I need to stop a walking set?

Use a false time restraint so they know that you won't keep them long because you have other things to do.

"I have to go -insert reason- but I had to stop you and tell you -insert reason-"


Set will either stop or not at this point, lol. You can walk with them if you guys are going the same way lol. Just ask beforehand to not look like a creep.

Author:  puaninja [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 3:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Do I need to stop a walking set?

I've walked behind a set and actually opened them indirectly from behind as we were walking. They kind of turned their heads and talked back. Then I walked around the side of them and kept talking and walked with them side-by-side. Don't be afraid to just start walking along with them wherever they are going.

There's actually a strategy called the "attention snap". This means that you have to grab their attention very directly and abruptly. With walking sets, yes, this means jumping in front of them and halting them. I know that when I go to the mall or street fairs, I make sure to keep a steady pace when I know a sales person or pamphlet person is going to pitch me something. I don't have to reject them or even acknowlege them if I can just blow right past them and keep walking. Girls do the same thing to guys. That's why you need to stop them in their tracks in order to force them to give you their full attention and acknowledge your presence.

Author:  Tändelei [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 6:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Do I need to stop a walking set?

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I've walked behind a set and actually opened them indirectly from behind as we were walking. They kind of turned their heads and talked back. Then I walked around the side of them and kept talking and walked with them side-by-side. Don't be afraid to just start walking along with them wherever they are going.

There's actually a strategy called the "attention snap". This means that you have to grab their attention very directly and abruptly. With walking sets, yes, this means jumping in front of them and halting them. I know that when I go to the mall or street fairs, I make sure to keep a steady pace when I know a sales person or pamphlet person is going to pitch me something. I don't have to reject them or even acknowlege them if I can just blow right past them and keep walking. Girls do the same thing to guys. That's why you need to stop them in their tracks in order to force them to give you their full attention and acknowledge your presence.
So yes and no or what?

Author:  puaninja [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 6:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Do I need to stop a walking set?

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I've walked behind a set and actually opened them indirectly from behind as we were walking. They kind of turned their heads and talked back. Then I walked around the side of them and kept talking and walked with them side-by-side. Don't be afraid to just start walking along with them wherever they are going.

There's actually a strategy called the "attention snap". This means that you have to grab their attention very directly and abruptly. With walking sets, yes, this means jumping in front of them and halting them. I know that when I go to the mall or street fairs, I make sure to keep a steady pace when I know a sales person or pamphlet person is going to pitch me something. I don't have to reject them or even acknowlege them if I can just blow right past them and keep walking. Girls do the same thing to guys. That's why you need to stop them in their tracks in order to force them to give you their full attention and acknowledge your presence.
So yes and no or what?
I'm just telling you strategies that work, you can decide which one to use in a given situation. Technically, according to proper protocol, you should stop them and open them from the front.

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 9:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Do I need to stop a walking set?

Get directly in front of them so they HAVE to stop.

There are 3 examples of me doing it in this video:

http://player.vimeo.com/video/46188716

Author:  Tändelei [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 9:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Do I need to stop a walking set?

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Thanks, that helped.

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