Hey dudes.
Not really a problem here but more of an interesting question!
Back story:
I am on a course at the moment and have been on it a week and a half.
I have been flirting with this chick that is sat next to me who is 10 years older than me but she is a super fox!
Just something about her...you know the kind...real quiet and polite..looks like a secretary...ha!
There is constant IOI's and kino going down...her leg is pretty much attached to mine all day under the table!
Anyway, the course ends at the end of this week so I though I better sort this sh*t out and get her on a date.
So, at lunch I got out a deck of cards and we were just messing about and playing cards so I saw my opportunity and did a card trick. I said "let's make a bet...If I get your card right...I get to take you out for a drink next week......and if I don't get it right...then you get to let me take you out for a drink next week!" She giggled and agreed...I won the bet and there was another burst of flirting etc...
Anyway after that..her body language completely closed up..
Like she couldn't get further away from me! I was like whoa...she barely even talked to me...didn't look at me...Anyway, I though f*ck it and did the same and ignored her! Towards the end of the day, I was back on form and she was back to normal...
I thought maybe she felt tricked into going on a date with me or perhaps pressured...So I checked after the class and asked her if she did because I will ask her properly if she wants
she blushed and she was fine about it.I have looked everywhere for an answer or a solution but I can't figure it out...
Like I said..not a problem..I would just like to know for future reference...and out of interest
So any body language guru's feel free to post an opinion! and/or how to combat it
Cheers guys
Jet..