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Author:  chloro4m [ Sun Jan 20, 2013 7:59 am ]
Post subject:  Why don't women take me seriously in the club?
I am a 5'10" guy with ear piercings and tattoo and decent muscles as well.
In the club I am pretty much an asshole, who doesn't give a shit and do whatever pleases me.
I usually end up grinding a girl, feeling her boobs, her crotch and then she just wants me to go away...
how do I establish some value? I am usually not afraid to escalate and I am not that bad
looking guy either...may be I am too aggressive...
Any suggestions are welcomed... thanks.
Author:  ZED4 [ Sun Jan 20, 2013 11:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't women take me seriously in the club?
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In the club I am pretty much an asshole, who doesn't give a shit and do whatever pleases me.
stop doing that.

just enjoy yourself in there and make sure people can see that, and don't try and start a set
by griding up on their ass, thats what most normal chumps do. it's good to an extent that you
do what pleases you, but tone it down if you're coming across as an a-hole
Author:  Malcolm Thomas [ Sun Jan 20, 2013 5:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't women take me seriously in the club?
Quote:
Quote:
In the club I am pretty much an asshole, who doesn't give a shit and do whatever pleases me.
stop doing that.

just enjoy yourself in there and make sure people can see that, and don't try and start a set
by griding up on their ass, thats what most normal chumps do. it's good to an extent that you
do what pleases you, but tone it down if you're coming across as an a-hole
This. Don't TRY to be an asshole. Trying to be nice or trying be an asshole is still TRYING. Stop trying and start attracting women.
Author:  GGplayer [ Sun Jan 20, 2013 5:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't women take me seriously in the club?
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I usually end up grinding a girl, feeling her boobs, her crotch and then she just wants me to go away...
Of course they would go away! Put yourself in their shoes, if someone you weren't the least bit attracted to just walked up to you and started groping you, you'd think it was fucking weird too.
Author:  chloro4m [ Mon Jan 21, 2013 12:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't women take me seriously in the club?
Thanks ZED4, Malcolm Thomas, GGplayer for your replies. I agree that straight on grinding, feeling their lady
parts right away is not a good idea, I am gonna do that after some while. :mrgreen:

I used to be very shy and intimidated by the club environment before, so I believe this might be a
calibration phase for me.
I cant even count how many girls have said "F O" or shown me the middle finger recently and I have actually
made fun of them to my heart's content after that.

Classy girls respond more to my humor and sometimes even start talking to me after that (strange?).

But I am pretty sure after going through a phase like that my fear of approach has gone away for the
most part, I just got to work on displaying value part.

I guess just a right combination of badness and niceness. 8)
Author:  chloro4m [ Mon Jan 21, 2013 12:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why don't women take me seriously in the club?
Just like Sasha says, " Better to be a dik than be a pusy" ..... just got to calibrate the size of dik :P
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